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Latin for "Remember that you [have to] die." This Halloween special brings raising your teen, life, and death into focus. Learn the whole story. Staying true to the CurlyStache mission, only opinionated and grounded in facts. Start Here! Blogs More More Raising Teens Today: Guiding Teenagers with Essential Parenting Dos and Don'ts Find us on Social! >>> The Mashup: Short Raising Teens Blog Entries. Opinionated. Grounded in Facts. 005 - 10.28.23 Memento Mori: Happy Halloween "Remember that you [have to] die." Yeah, that's eerie enough, and when spoken in Latin, "Memento mori" seems to give it that much more of a breathtaking vibe of mortality and inevitability. Tis the season: Halloween, filled with all the gore, skulls, bones, creeps, witches, and death you can handle, giving you that much more of a chance to think about the true meaning of memento mori. Even the universe wants you to remember the fragility of life—you, your teen, and everybody you love in life. Nature wants you to experience its potential onslaught yearly: The days get shorter, darker, and colder, with noticeable brisk winds. Exposed plants start dying off, and trees shrivel, showing their bare bark with a false sense of beauty as the colorful leaves float around. Animals, big and small, begin scurrying around frantically, looking for new homes and hibernating nests to prevent certain death. As it becomes colder, it becomes a mere whisp of memory of how lively it was not even a month ago. It's always good to be humble and keep the perspective that, despite being intelligent humans, we are and will never be immune to memento mori. Should we dwell on it and become fearful and paranoid that we could die? Does this mean we must amp up our safety game and take more precautions? The answer to both: HARD NO. On the contrary, we should do the exact opposite. If you are in denial about dying, stop. It is the ONLY thing that is a 100% guarantee in life: death. Come to grips. Memento mori is real; we will all have our fateful day, but right now, if you are reading this, you are ALIVE! Enjoy everything life has to offer and make the most of everything! Life is a beautiful thing. No, I'm not talking about hugging a tree or safely capturing a gnat to release it outside instead of killing it (unless you want to; remember, you do you!). All I am saying is that every damn thing has its own beauty. Cherish it. Without it, you wouldn't be here, and you wouldn't be who you are. That said, next time you see that person you can't stand, that jerk you work with, or whatever the case, despite the anguish you feel, I want you to think, even for the smallest of moments, "I am alive! And I'm free to feel this way, to have these emotions, to be royally pissed and annoyed, and hell, without them being alive too, I couldn't feel this way." Yeah, it's a unique way of looking at it, but it is true. Cherish all you have, the good and evil, and everything in between because that makes you alive. When raising teens today, remember that their confusing, chaotic emotions and behaviors are, in essence, the same as yours. There are two primary differences between you feeling that way and your teen feeling that way, making them confusing and chaotic. The first is that you have maturity, and the second is that you have wisdom. As you raise them and they grow, you must fill the void of wisdom and maturity for them until they have their own. If you fail to fill that void, it could lead to unnecessary mistakes and growing pains that could have been avoided, possibly and critically, including a premature memento mori-type situation. Nevertheless, enjoy life and hold your teen, family, and all loved ones close, and never let go. One day, the time will come, and the inevitability of death and all that ties us together will be here. So, enjoy the colorful leaves, jack o'lanterns, children and teens trick or treating, holiday parties, corn mazes, haunted houses, hot cider, and hundreds of other holiday festivities that Holloween, All Hollow's Eve, or All Saints' Eve has to offer! Above all else, keep your kids and teens safe, know where they are and with whom, be present for them, get festive and enjoy the holiday, and tell them you love them because there is a 100% chance of memento mori and a 0% chance of knowing when! Happy Halloween, everyone! Until next time! Date Saturday, October 28, 2023 Share Blog Episode 005 - "Memento Mori: Happy Halloween" (Copy Again) Copy Link Relativity Help us spread the word! This is how we grow and flourish as a blog and website. From me to you and your friends. https://www.curlystache.com/mashup/memento-mori What? So, what exactly is the Mashup? Precisely as it sounds: a blend of online writing styles in a format ranging from storytelling and structured to opinionated to factual, formal to casual, and personal to professional—all while ensuring we keep true to the CurlyStache mission of guiding teenagers and raising teens today in a volatile society. The Mashup is designed to be more opinionated, grounded in facts, less researched, and directed to spark ideas and discussions. When? During the weeks I cannot get a blog out, I will fill that void with a Mashup entry. Remember to follow us on Facebook @CurlyStache Blogs and through all your favorite social media outlets to get notified of the newest releases! And be sure to share it with friends and families that could benefit! Why? I enjoy writing and expressing my opinions on essential issues when raising teens today. 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Discover strategies to worry less and focus on what truly matters—family, friends, hobbies, and jobs. Embrace a life with less stress and more joy with mindfulness! Worry Less, Live More: How to Effectively Manage Your Worries GT Mashup Blog: Episode 013 Written By : Daniel Currie Published On : 3 /6 /2024 Relativity Rating: Growth Beyond 20 What's this? Life can sometimes feel like a tightrope walk over a pit of worry. We worry about our family, our job, the future, and everything in between. It's like our minds are on a never-ending spin cycle of "what ifs" and "should haves." But what if I told you there's a way to hop off that cycle? That's right, it's time to learn how to worry less and actually start living. Why We Worry: The Heart of the Matter Worrying is a natural human instinct—it's our brain's way of trying to protect us from potential threats. But when we let these worries spiral out of control, they do more harm than good. They gnaw at our peace of mind, leaving us stressed, anxious, and downright miserable. And for what? Half the stuff we worry about never even happens. It's high time we start focusing on what truly matters: living our lives to the fullest. How to Worry Less: Two Full-Proof Methods Worrying less isn't about ignoring the real issues we face. It's about managing our reaction to potential problems and focusing our energy on what we can control. Let's break it down. #1 ► Compartmentalize, Prioritize, and Realize Here's a golden nugget of advice: carve out 15 minutes of your day, preferably when you know you're most prone to worrying. Sit at a desk or a table—somewhere you can't get too cozy. You see, comfort can sometimes keep us trapped in worryland, a place where your body hits a state of lethargic comfortableness, making it hard to snap back to reality. Sitting somewhere solid, you'll feel more grounded and ready to tackle whatever is on your mind. During this worry session, let it all out. But here's the catch: do it with purpose. Start a journal and jot down every single worry crowding your brain. This isn't about letting your fears run wild; it's about giving them a place to exist outside of your head. Seeing your worries in black and white can provide a fresh perspective, helping you figure out which concerns are worth your time and which you can let go of. This type of exercise is a form of controlled exposure to your worries, allowing the worrywart within to have its moment, but under your terms. It's about acknowledging your anxieties, understanding them, and then crafting a plan to address what genuinely needs attention. You can think of it as a mindfulness exercise for healthy worrying. Why does this work? It's simple: when you compartmentalize your worries, you're setting boundaries. You're telling your brain, "This is the time we deal with this, and afterward, we focus on living." It's a powerful strategy to ensure that worry doesn't consume your day. Plus, the act of writing creates a sense of commitment to handling these worries productively rather than letting them simmer in the background. "The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another." – William James* #2 ► The 5-4-3-2-1 Technique: A Mindfulness Windfall When worry starts creeping up on you, especially in times when you can't wait for your 15 minutes of worrying, grounding yourself in the present can be incredibly powerful. That's where the 5-4-3-2-1 Technique shines. Sometimes known as the "5 Senses Technique," it's a simple yet effective mindfulness exercise that diverts your attention away from your worries and back to the here and now. First, acknowledge five things you can see around you. Next, focus on four things you can touch. Then, listen for three sounds you can hear. After that, identify two things you can smell. Finally, acknowledge one thing you can taste. This technique isn't just fluff—it's backed by the idea that by engaging all your senses, you're forcing your mind to leave behind its anxious thoughts and focus on the present. Real-Life Examples: Turning Theory into Practice Let's get real for a moment. Think about the last time you worried yourself sick over something that never happened. All that energy wasted, all for nothing. Now, remember a time when you faced a problem head-on, focusing only on what you could change. Felt better, right? These real-life examples show us the stark difference between letting worry control us and taking control of our worry. Wrapping It Up: Mindfulness to a Worry-Less Life The journey to worrying less is exactly that—a journey. It's not about becoming a Zen master overnight or pretending that problems don't exist. It's about learning to manage our worries in a way that doesn't derail our happiness or our lives. By adopting mindfulness strategies like compartmentalizing our worries and practicing mindfulness, we can find a healthier balance. So, the next time worry comes knocking, remember: you have the tools to deal with it. You're in control. Worry less, live more—it's not just a catchy saying. It's a mantra for a happier, more fulfilling life. Let's embrace it with open arms. Until Next Time... Facebook X (Twitter) WhatsApp LinkedIn Pinterest Copy link Help us spread the word! Share this article across all your favorite platforms now! *William James : a philosopher, historian, and psychologist and the first educator to offer a psychology course in the United States.

Discover the top 3 teen stressors. Gain parental strategies to help manage teen stress from the relentless world of academics, social media, and societal pressures. Teen Wellness & Managing Teen Stress: Parental Strategies GT Mashup Blog: Episode 011 Written By : Daniel Currie Published On : 2 /22 /2024 Relativity Rating: Adolescence What's this? I Get It—Really. Navigating the teen years with my son has been one hell of a ride. Between the relentless academic grind, the social media circus, and the suffocating societal expectations, it’s like navigating a minefield blindfolded. But here’s the kicker—I’ve seen these battles up close and personal, and I’m telling you, they’re not unbeatable. With a bit of grit, a shit-ton of savvy strategies, and a whole lot of heart, we can steer our teens through this chaos. Here’s the scoop on the top three pressures that seem impossible but are actually more like speed bumps, assuming we hit them with the right mindset. Academic Expectations: Fostering a Growth Mindset The academic rat race can be a real bitch. It’s not about pushing our kids to hit the books harder; it’s about inspiring them to embrace the grind for what it is—a chance to grow. ► Prioritize Learning Over Grades Hammer it home that the real win is in understanding, not just acing tests. It’s the journey, with all its fuck-ups and victories, that counts. ► Set Realistic Goals Sit down with them to set goals that stretch them without breaking them. It’s about striking that perfect balance where they’re pushed but not to the point of snapping. ► Encourage Breaks and Self-Care All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy, right? Push them to find hobbies that give their brains a rest. A little downtime can do wonders, recharging their mental batteries and keeping burnout at bay. Social Media: Cultivating Digital Wellbeing Social media can be a double-edged sword—a source of inspiration or a pit of despair. Teaching our teens to navigate this digital jungle is key to maintaining their sanity. ► Follow Inspiring People Influence them to curate a feed that lights a fire in their bellies, not one that drowns them in comparison and self-doubt. ► Limit Nighttime Use No phones in bed. Period. The blue light is a sleep-sucking vampire. Encourage them to read or listen to music instead. ► Promote Creation Over Consumption Urge them to be the voice, not just an echo. Creating content, whether it’s art, writing, or videos, empowers them and beats mindless scrolling any day. Societal Expectations: Embracing Individuality Screw the cookie-cutter version of success. Our teens need to know that it’s their quirks and oddities that make them extraordinary, not their ability to conform. ► Discuss Different Success Stories Show them examples of people who tore up the rulebook and wrote their own success stories. It’s about highlighting the diversity of paths to fulfillment. ► Encourage Exploration Prod them to try everything and anything. The best lessons are often learned through spectacular failures and the courage to try again. ► Validate Their Feelings The pressure to fit in can be overwhelming. Make it clear that their value doesn’t come from meeting everyone else’s damn expectations but from being fiercely and unapologetically themselves. Conclusion Steering our teens through these stormy years is about empowering them to navigate life’s bullshit with their heads held high. My own journey with my son has been a rollercoaster of highs and lows, but damn, it’s been worth every moment. It’s shown me that with the right approach, we can transform those mountains of pressure into molehills. Craving more unfiltered, straight-talking advice? Check out our other Mashup Blogs. They’re your arsenal for tackling the teen years with a blend of grit, grace, and a middle finger to those who say it can’t be done. Together, let’s rewrite the rulebook on raising teens, turning pressure into purpose, one badass step at a time. Until Next Time... Facebook X (Twitter) WhatsApp LinkedIn Pinterest Copy link Help us spread the word! Share this article across all your favorite platforms now!

Learn how to set and maintain healthy boundaries with your family to enhance respect and strengthen relationships. Take control and feel empowered. Boundaries and Family: Navigating Close Relationships Confidently GT Bite-Size Blog: Episode 016 Written By : Daniel Currie Published On : 3 /28 /2024 Alright, let's break down this concept of "Boundaries and Family" so it's super clear and easy to grasp, even if you're just chilling after a long day of school or mellowing out after a long day in the office in front of your 70" finishing off March Madness. Relativity Rating: Everybody What's this? Understanding Boundaries: What's the Big Deal? Imagine boundaries like an invisible force field around you. They're all about making sure you're treated right and feel good in your family, whether that's with your mom, dad, brother, sister, kids—or anyone really. Angela Sitka is a well-known, prominent therapist in California who knows a thing or two in this field. She firmly states that boundaries are "like a promise you make to yourself to take care of your own needs while interacting in your relationships." You decide how you want to be treated, and if someone crosses the line, you're ready to stand up for yourself. Why You Gotta Have Them Boundaries aren't about being selfish; they're actually about taking care of your own vibe so you can enjoy time with your family without feeling all stressed out. They help everyone understand what's cool and what's not, making hanging out together way more fun and less of a drama fest. Setting Them Up Like a Pro Reflect First: Before you even chat with your family, take a minute to think about what makes you feel comfy and what doesn't. If thinking about certain family hangouts makes you sweat, that's a big hint you need some boundaries. Talk It Out: When you're ready, be clear and calm about what you need. Say something like, "Hey, when you make jokes about my hobbies, it can really burn me at times. I'd appreciate it if we could talk about something else." If Things Go South, Stay Cool: Sometimes, people might forget or ignore your boundaries, and that's tough. But remember, you can remind them gently or decide what to do next, like taking a break from the convo if it gets too intense. Looking After Number One Setting boundaries isn't just about dealing with other people; it's also about treating yourself right. It means not getting too caught up in how others react and remembering you're awesome, regardless of what they may say. It's a Two-Way Street Boundaries go both ways. If someone in your family sets their own boundaries, it's not just cool to appreciate; it's something admirable, respectable, and a really good show of character—like you and your set boundaries. It shows you care about each other's feelings and want the best for everyone. Keep It Going Remember, setting boundaries isn't a one-and-done deal. It's more like leveling up in a video game—or getting that much closer in your March Madness Bracket. You get better over time, and sometimes you need to adjust your strategy. It might feel like a lot at first, but it gets easier, and it's totally worth it for the peace of mind and better family vibes. Conclusion Setting boundaries with your family doesn't have to be a battlefield. It's about understanding and respect, making sure everyone's cool with how they're treated. Stick with it, and you'll see how it makes family time a whole lot better. Keep being awesome, and remember, your feelings are always valid! Until Next Time... Facebook X (Twitter) WhatsApp LinkedIn Pinterest Copy link Help us spread the word! Share this article across all your favorite platforms now!

Join us for the LAST Mashup before Guiding Teenagers' spring break. Exciting updates, new seasons, and more coming your way in May 2024! Guiding Teenagers' Spring Break 2024 Update GT Bite-Size Blog: Episode 017 Written By : Daniel Currie Published On : 4/4/2024 I wanted to take a moment in this last bite-size blog before we hit a brief pause for our version of spring break and give a massive shoutout to each and every one of you who's been riding this wave with me – through thick and thin, highs and lows, and all those damn crazy times in between. Whether you're here for the first time or you've been following my journey from the get-go, I've gotta say, I'm damn glad you're here. And hey, if you're not following me on all the social platforms yet, hit the link on the menu above. Let's keep this party going off the screen! Relativity Rating: Everybody What's this? Those of you who just stumbled on this page might be wondering, "What the hell is a Bite-Size Blog?" better known as a "Mashup." Well, my friend, you're in for a treat. Imagine blending spicy opinions with hard facts, all while keeping it real for us adults navigating this wild ride called parenting teens. That's what we're all about here – no fluff, no BS, just real talk for real folks. But here's the deal – like I said, we're hitting spring break for April. Why? I get it; other sites don't go on vacation, but because, folks, "parental burnout " ain't just something I blog about; it's real, and damn, it hits hard. I've always been about practicing what you preach. Running this one-man circus, juggling blogs, and swatting bugs on the site like it's a Whack-a-Mole has made me realize I should probably chill the hell out a bit and enjoy what's in front of me, my teens. So, what's on the agenda during this little breather? Apart from some quality time with the family, kicking back, and maybe sipping on something strong enough to put hairs on your chest, I'll be diving headfirst into sprucing up the Guiding Teenagers website. We're talking critical updates to keep things running as smooth as silk while refreshing older blogs to ensure you get the newest, freshest takes. And yes, despite CurlyStache and Guiding Teenagers being synonymous, it's time to get the pages uniform with their format and logos. Now, let's talk shop about the future of Guiding Teenagers and its schedule after "The Last Mashup." When we return on Monday, May 6, we go 3 months on and 1 month off. To better encapsulate the Guiding Teenagers era, much like a kick-ass TV series, we'll break up the 3-month segments, referring to them as "seasons." May 6 marks the dawn of Season 4, baby! New blogs, aka "episodes," will drop every Monday only. Never fear, Mashups aren't going away completely. We are merely merging Mashups and Full-Length Blogs. Think of Season 4 blogs having just the right tone and personality of a Mashup but with the information of a Full-Length Blog. For those who depend on your weekly Thursday read from Guiding Teenagers, I got you. Occasionally, I'll drop "Special Edition" blogs on Thursday or possibly a personal blog entry; that's still in the works though. Regardless, the survey says (okay, so maybe I'm the survey, haha) it's a helluva epic idea. Your turn! What do you think about it? Drop it in the comment below, and I'll be sure to reply, mention you, or give you a shoutout via social! We're on a mission to make Guiding Teenagers as recognizable and dependable as the sun rising in the East. And if the stars align, we'll be launching a mini-store with some of our legendary CurlyStache gear and, of course, current Guiding Teenagers apparel & memorabilia. Guaranteed to make you the coolest parent, guardian, grandparent (or whoever!) on the block, all thanks to a sweet partnership with Amazon. Podcasts ? Oh, they're on the horizon. Imagine kicking back and soaking in the insights of our blogs with the laughs of real-life adventures and stories. All of this through your favorite podcast app. We're working on it—no ETA yet, but stay tuned. Here's where you come in. What do you want to see more of on the site? Got a burning question or a topic you're itching to dive into? Maybe you're eager to share your own journey or tips with the world. Whatever it is, hit us up. Your voice matters here, and we're all ears for suggestions and always looking for guest bloggers. Yes! Moms, dads, and anyone else who wants to try blogging or guest blogging! Contact us and write a blog to be published to help other parents for free! Before I wrap this up, let me reassure you: the site isn't going anywhere. All the blogs, all the tips, all the late-night musings – they're staying put. We're just giving the old girl a facelift, so things might shift around a bit. But trust me, it's all in the name of making your experience here better than ever. So, what's the call to action? Keep checking back, folks. New stuff, exciting updates, and that same old charm aren't going anywhere. We're just loading up for an even bigger, badder comeback. 'Til then, keep it real, and remember—we're in this crazy parenting gig together. Until Next Time... Facebook X (Twitter) WhatsApp LinkedIn Pinterest Copy link Help us spread the word! Share this article across all your favorite platforms now!