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written by: Daniel Currie editing and proofreading by: Jacasa Currie Mashup Dedicated to Jacasa Currie Guiding Teenagers Bite-Size 4-minute Blogs, best known as GT Mashups No fancy formats. Opinionated. Based On Facts. Whether you are a stressed parent navigating this thing they call parenthood, a teenager simply trying to figure out their preferences in life, or someone in between, this is a PSA just for you. In our first post of Season 5, we launch with our fan-favorite Mashup style blog: the shorter, laid-back, and more opinion-based blog, where formats are anything but mandatory. Regardless, in this Mashup, we dive into the concept that is vital to the mind and soul, regardless of your age. The only age criteria for this post is anyone who dares to dream! Now, without further ado, enjoy this first episode with some intense passion! Table of Contents Now you must be thinking, WTF? What does this guy mean by saying, "Enjoy this first episode with some intense passion!" Intense passion? Yeah, you read correctly—intense passion. This Mashup will explain how and why intense passion is vital for a healthy and happy life—regardless of parenting status! To clarify, when I say "intense passion," it's the kind of passion that makes your heart race, your eyes sparkle, and your soul catch fire. Face it: life is too short to live any other way, and if you've been tiptoeing through your days, it's time to wake up and start running. Passion-driven living isn't just a concept; it's a lifestyle, a mindset, a damn good way to turn the ordinary into extraordinary. Why Intense Passion Matters Let's face it: life can be mundane. It's easy to fall into a routine, doing the same things day in and day out until the days blur into weeks—even months, and years. But what if, instead of just going through the motions, you started living with purpose and intense passion? That's when life stops being something that happens to you and starts being something you create, shape, and fiercely own. Passion-driven people don't wait for life to hand them an invitation; they kick down the door and, in a fit of emotional passion, scream, "Here I am, make some noise because you might as well get busy living, or you might as well get busy dying!" They feel every experience deeply, savor every victory, and embrace every challenge with a fire that refuses to be extinguished. Finding Your Passion Now, you might be thinking, "That's all well and good, but what if I don't know what I'm passionate about?" The truth is, not everyone is born knowing exactly what sets their soul on fire. And that's okay! Finding your passion is a journey, not a destination. Start by exploring what interests you. Maybe it's parenting, perhaps it's writing blogs, or maybe it's your career. Regardless, take note of the things that make you lose track of time, the activities that fill you with energy and joy. Experiment, try new things, fail, and try again. Passion-driven living isn't about finding one thing and sticking to it forever; it's about continuously exploring and discovering new aspects of yourself and the world around you. Embracing Intensity in Everyday Life Living with intense passion doesn't mean you have to quit your job, sell all your belongings, and move to a cabin in the woods (unless that's what you're into—then go for it!). It's about infusing your everyday life with meaning and purpose. It's about doing whatever you do—whether it's your job, your hobbies, your relationships—with a full heart and unwavering dedication. If you're a parent, be the most passionate, involved, and loving parent you can be. If you're a student, dive into your studies with curiosity and enthusiasm. If you're a barista, make that cup of coffee like it's the most important thing you'll do all day. Passion-driven living is about finding the extraordinary in the ordinary and never settling for anything less than what sets your soul on fire. Overcoming Obstacles to Passion Let's get real for a minute: living with intense passion isn't always easy. There will be obstacles—fear, doubt, criticism from others, and sometimes even the dreaded burnout. But here's the thing: nothing worth having ever comes easy. When you commit to a passion-driven life, you learn to see these obstacles not as roadblocks but as stepping stones. You embrace challenges as opportunities for growth. When the going gets tough, you dig deep, fuel your fire with your unwavering love for what you do, and keep pushing forward. Passion-driven people are resilient because their passion gives them the strength to overcome anything life throws their way. Connecting with Like-Minded Souls One of the beautiful things about living with intense passion is that it naturally attracts like-minded individuals. Passion is contagious. When you're truly passionate about something, people can't help but be drawn to your energy. Surround yourself with people who share your enthusiasm for life, who encourage you to chase your dreams, and who celebrate your victories with the same joy as their own. Passion-driven living isn't just about finding your path; it's about building a community of people who inspire and uplift each other. It's about creating a network of intense passion that fuels creativity, collaboration, and genuine human connection. With that said, since our blogs typically specialize in raising teens, it is worth noting that it is vital to let your teen (or teens) explore their passions, allowing them to press forward with intensity—and, crucially, without judgment. Making Every Moment Count At the end of the day, living with intense passion is about making every moment, every day, count. It's about waking up each morning excited for what the day will bring. It's finding like-minded people to elevate your feelings and joy that much more, knowing there is no limit to those intense feelings. And it's about ending each day with a sense of fulfillment, knowing you gave it your all. Passion-driven people don't live for the weekends or the next vacation; they find joy in the here and now. They understand that life is a series of moments, and it's up to them to make each one as meaningful as possible. So, take a deep breath, put your heart into whatever you do, and start living a passion-driven life today. Conclusion: Your Passion-Driven Journey Starts Now Life isn't about waiting for the perfect moment; it's about making the moment perfect with your intense passion. It's about taking whatever you're doing, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant, and doing it with everything you've got. Whether you're pursuing a lifelong dream, tackling a new hobby, or simply navigating the daily grind, do it with purpose, do it with fire, and do it with intense passion. Because that's how you turn an ordinary life into an extraordinary adventure. So go out there and live like you mean it. Be bold, be brave, and be unapologetically passion-driven. The world is waiting for you to set it on fire. Love it? Share it!  (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles !  ✒️ Take me home  🏠 Back to the top  ⬆️ Originally Written on: January 20, 2025

written by: Daniel Currie editing and proofreading by: Jacasa Currie Hey, everyone! Massive shoutout to all of you for sticking around and continuing to support Guiding Teenagers. If you're new here, welcome! I'm thrilled to have you join us for Season 5. We're back and better than ever with more insight, guidance, and real talk about raising, guiding, and understanding teenagers in today's not-so-stable, crazy world. Don't forget to follow us on all our socials (links below) to stay connected! In today's blog, we're diving into a question that so many parents struggle with: "Toxic Teen or Afflicted Adolescent?"  Are they acting out because they're a problem, or is there something deeper going on? Spoiler alert: It's usually the latter. Stick with me because I'm breaking this down piece by piece and giving you real, actionable steps to better understand and help your teen—no BS, just heart and hard truths. Table of Contents ► What Does It Mean to Have a Toxic Teen? ► What Can You Do for a Toxic Teen? ● Steps to Support Your Teen ► What is an Afflicted Adolescent? ► The Difference Between a Toxic Teen and an Afflicted Adolescent ● Toxic Teen: Influenced by External Factors ● Afflicted Adolescent: Struggling Internally ► What Can You Do for an Afflicted Adolescent? ► Under the Influence: When Escaping Reality Becomes the Problem ► Amplifying Toxic and Afflicted Effects ► Defeating the Toxic and Afflicted Tension: 8 Ways to Help ► Conclusion What Does It Mean to Have a Toxic Teen? Let's start with the obvious. You've probably seen the classic signs of a "Toxic Teen." They're defiant, disrespectful, and constantly pushing the boundaries. Maybe they're skipping school, hanging with the wrong crowd, or just radiating negativity like it's their job. But here's the thing: toxic behavior doesn't come out of nowhere . Often, it's rooted in external influences . Maybe they're being bullied, struggling academically, or dealing with some real-life family issues that they can't articulate. Think of it like this: Toxic teens don't want  to be angry and destructive; they just reflect the chaos they feel inside or around them. Don't mistake their outbursts for who they are . Instead, dig into why they're behaving this way. What Can You Do for a Toxic Teen? So, how do you help a "Toxic Teen" without losing your sanity? First, let's talk about the power of authoritative parenting . Authoritative parenting  means being warm, responsive, and supportive while still holding clear, firm boundaries. It's not about being their best friend or ruling with an iron fist. It's about balance. Steps to Support Your Teen: Love them unconditionally  – Yeah, they're being a pain in the ass right now, but unconditional love is what makes you their rock. Make sure they know it. No, it doesn't mean you must hug them 30 times daily; after all, tough love is still love. Furthermore, it doesn't matter how others perceive your relationship; it's about what works best for you and your teen. What does matter is that you tell them that you love them unconditionally. Make it undeniable to them. Listen more, talk less  – Let them open up on their terms without judgment. Listen. Really listen. Despite how hard it may be to want to offer advice, solve their problems, and take away their pain, refrain. When they need advice, they will ask, and in turn, you will be amazed at how much insight you can gain by actively listening—all while they confide in you! Be consistent  – Set expectations and stick to them. Even when they fail, and they will  fail, stay firm and forgiving. Teens thrive in stability. Invest time  – Rebuilding trust takes time . Go to their games, learn their hobbies, and show up. Be present in whatever they do. Even when they don't seem to care, they're watching. It won't be easy. There will be setbacks, frustration, and maybe even moments where you want to throw in the towel. But showing up every day with patience, love, and a willingness to try  will make a world of difference. What is an Afflicted Adolescent? Now, let's switch gears and talk about the other side: Afflicted Adolescents . These are teens struggling internally—often with mental health issues, self-esteem, or raging hormones. Simply put, it's the stuff that is not so controllable. For instance, instead of lashing out, they might act out for attention, withdraw, or spiral into anxiety and depression. It's not that they're trying to be difficult; they just don't know how to express their thoughts and feelings in a way that makes sense to them or anyone else. Confusion and uncertainty reign supreme in their developing minds as they navigate uncharted waters of teenhood. Here's an example: Maybe your teen used to love school and being in afterschool activities because they were a social butterfly and loved being the center of attention. Now, they are declining invitations to school functions, are noticeably sick on certain school days, and overall not their chipper and giddy self. This doesn't mean you should jump to conclusions; however, there are definite signs that your teen could be an afflicted adolescent. Let's dive into some of the key differences between the Toxic Teen and Afflicted Adolescent so we can better understand what is going on in this example. The Difference Between a Toxic Teen and an Afflicted Adolescent Understanding the distinction between a Toxic Teen and an Afflicted Adolescent is crucial in guiding your approach. While both may exhibit challenging behaviors, the roots of their struggles differ significantly. Toxic Teen: Influenced by External Factors A Toxic Teen's demeanor and personality are heavily influenced by their surroundings. There are three main contributing factors to keep in mind: Peer Groups : The saying "you are who you hang with" couldn't be more accurate. Teens who spend time with rebellious or negative peers often mimic similar behaviors to fit in. It's human nature—at any age—to adopt the mannerisms of those you surround yourself with. Family Environment : Family dynamics play a crucial role in shaping behavior. Tension, inconsistency, or a lack of boundaries at home can create an atmosphere where toxic behaviors thrive. Just as teens mimic their peers, they naturally pick up attitudes and behaviors from family members as well. If negative attitudes or behaviors are present in the household, there's a strong likelihood your teen may adopt those mannerisms, too. External Stressors : Academic pressures, friendship drama, and social media toxicity can significantly magnify negative habits and behaviors. With the ever-increasing demands of school, the challenges of peer conflicts, and the unrealistic standards set by social media, teens can quickly become overwhelmed, making it all the more crucial to provide guidance and support. Simply put, their behavior is often a reflection of what they've learned or absorbed from their environment. They're like sponges, soaking up external influences, whether good or bad. As we touched on already, the more involved you are in trying to understand their world, the better; this includes listening without judgment, keeping an open mind, being empathetic, and, most importantly, remaining respectful of their preferences. Respect doesn't mean you have to agree with their interests; it simply means acknowledging them. These efforts significantly increase the chances of making positive changes in their environment and, ultimately, within them. Afflicted Adolescent: Struggling Internally An afflicted adolescent, on the other hand, faces battles that are more internal and often harder to pinpoint. Afflicted adolescents grapple with issues that can feel overwhelming and isolating. Their actions often serve as cries for understanding and support. That said, approaching them with empathy and patience is vital. Recognizing these internal battles is the first step toward helping them find balance and develop healthier coping mechanisms. Let's dive into the top reasons that affect most afflicted adolescents: Mental Health Struggles : Anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues can create significant turmoil. These teens often feel overwhelmed and unable to cope with their emotions. When a teen faces these struggles, the onset can happen in the blink of an eye or over the years of adolescence. Hormonal Changes : The rollercoaster of adolescence can wreak havoc on their moods and outlook. As I'm sure all of us parents experienced when we were teens, hormones can dramatically impact overall behavior. Self-Esteem Issues : Low self-confidence and feelings of inadequacy can lead teens to withdraw or act out. In this vulnerable stage, criticism or comparison can significantly amplify their insecurities. Adolescents are highly sensitive to how they perceive themselves and how they believe others view them. Bullying or Social Pressures : Feeling ostracized or judged by peers can deeply affect a teen's sense of self-worth. Bullying, whether in person or online, can lead to feelings of isolation, anxiety, and even depression. Social pressures to fit in, meet expectations, or conform to trends only amplify these struggles. Teens often internalize these experiences, which can manifest as withdrawal, anger, or risky behavior. Perception of Others : An afflicted adolescent may overly focus on how others perceive them, leading to stress, overthinking, and self-doubt. This concept, often called "imaginary audience," is typical in adolescent development. It can make them feel as though they're constantly being judged, even when they're not. Unlike Toxic Teens, these struggles often emerge without an apparent external trigger. Supporting an afflicted adolescent means addressing their internal world with empathy, patience, and professional help if needed. What Can You Do for an Afflicted Adolescent? Supporting an afflicted teen is about empathy, openness, and respect. Here are some key strategies: Offer help without pushing  – Gently encourage therapy, counseling, or talking to a trusted adult if they feel uncomfortable confiding in you (and don't be upset if they don't want to talk to you; I promise it isn't personal under normal circumstances!) Respect their interests  – Even if it's TikTok, Instagram, or gaming for hours, understanding their passions will show them your acceptance of their interests. Even if you think their choices aren't the greatest, as long as they are not harmful, illegal, or immoral (based on your belief system), you should respect them; it will go a long way. Encourage mental wellness – Normalize therapy, journaling, or meditation as tools for a healthy mind. We must ensure that our teens understand that mental health is just as important as physical health and that seeking help when needed is essential. Never shame or isolate  – Making them feel ashamed for their struggles will only push them deeper into themselves. It sounds obvious, I know, but sometimes, what may not seem like a big deal (or something said a certain way) can cause our teens to slump deeper into their uncertainties, further validating their unworthiness. It's crucial to remember that although the problems may not be a problem to you, they are a real thing to them. Mental health struggles are real. The sooner we accept that, the better chance we have at guiding our kids to a healthier place. It's vital to remember that it starts with you, the parent, extending a hand of hope, offering the support they seek that they just don't know how to ask for. Under the Influence: When Escaping Reality Becomes the Problem Here's where things get even trickier. It doesn't matter whether you're dealing with a Toxic Teen or an Afflicted Adolescent— drugs and alcohol  can become a tempting escape in many cases. Why can it become a tempting escape? Maybe they're drinking to numb their pain, or perhaps trying to feel something  when everything else feels empty. Regardless, they are growing teenagers who stumble and try to figure things out on their own. Don't panic, but certainly don't ignore it either. It's our job to guide them away from the harmful band-aid feelings of drugs and alcohol and give them the tools necessary to conquer their issues without the need for illegal substances. There is a silver lining, though, so don't fret! Just because your teen may experiment with drugs and alcohol, it does not necessarily mean they are struggling with internal or external issues. Remember, we are talking about impressionable adolescents. There can be many reasons why drugs and alcohol may have entered their lives. Maybe it isn't turmoil they are going through. Maybe it's wanting to fit in, and it was readily available at a party they went to. It could be peer pressure, their friends convincing them, or their sheer curiosity getting the best of them. Regardless, before jumping to conclusions, it is critical to do your homework and figure out, to the best that you can, the reason for drugs and alcohol if you find your teen is in this situation. Amplifying Toxic and Afflicted Effects Substances like drugs and alcohol act as amplifiers over time. Sure, they might make your teen feel good initially or quiet the chaos in their mind, but as we all know, they're nothing more than temporary fixes. It's like putting a band-aid on a gunshot wound—completely inadequate for the depth of the issue. When teens use substances to cope, they're not solving the problem; they're prolonging and ultimately worsening it. If your teen is struggling with anger, anxiety, or other intense emotions, drugs and alcohol can amplify those feelings tenfold. Worse yet, and it goes without saying, chronic use can lead to addiction, which obviously creates a whole new storm of challenges and instability in their lives. So, what might it look like if a teen were drinking as an emotional crutch? Here's a hypothetical example: You notice your teen has started sneaking out late at night. Now, you stumble upon an empty beer bottle in their room that they had clearly forgotten to hide. At first, you feel a mix of betrayal and fury. But instead of reacting immediately, you decide to sleep on it to avoid an explosive confrontation. The next morning, you approach your teen and the situation with a cooler head and a calm demeanor. Thanks to your even tone and genuine willingness to listen, your teen begins to open up. They admit they've been drinking to "calm their nerves." Their math class is overwhelming. The assignments are confusing, the professor is tough, and they feel utterly unprepared for their upcoming exams. This revelation points to a deeper issue: anxiety. Now that you know what's truly going on, you can focus on helping them address the root cause. Instead of focusing solely on drinking (regardless of being reprimanded for the wrongdoing), you can explore healthier coping mechanisms together, such as mindfulness exercises, tutoring, or speaking with a school counselor. By fostering open communication and offering constructive solutions, you're not just addressing the drinking; you're equipping your teen with the tools to handle stress in a healthier, more sustainable way. This approach shows empathy and care while reinforcing boundaries—because you love them and want the best for their future. Defeating the Toxic and Afflicted Tension: 8 Ways to Help Here are 8 actionable ways to help your teen, counting down to the most important. #8 – Get Them Involved in Activities Idle hands make for bad choices. Encourage clubs, sports, or volunteering. #7 – Set Healthy Boundaries Teens need structure even when they fight it. #6 – Open Communication Talk, but more importantly, listen . Remind them you are always there for them, no matter what. #5 – Be the Example They're watching you. Model healthy habits. Remember: they are sponges. #4 – Educate Them on Substances Knowledge is power. Educate them. Never assume they are using. Do your homework before assuming anything. #3 – Find Professional Support Therapists, counselors, and coaches are lifesavers—sometimes more literal than you know. #2 – Build Trust Trust is the bridge to change. Build it brick by brick, no matter how long it takes. It is worth it when you see them cross it. #1 – Parenting Energy The single biggest factor is you . The more love, energy, and effort you pour into your teen, the better the outcome. Parenting isn't passive—it's an active  mission. Conclusion Understanding whether you have a Toxic Teen or an Afflicted Adolescent is key to guiding them through their struggles. Whatever the case, don't lose hope—you've got this, and they need you more than you know. Keep checking back in because we're dropping fresh blogs every Monday! Whether you're into our full-length Guiding Teenagers  blogs, quick and snappy Mashup  posts, or our brand-new Adult Swim  blogs (for young adults and adults), there's something here for everyone. Love it? Share it!  (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles !  ✒️ Take me home  🏠 Back to the top  ⬆️ Originally Written on: January 27, 2025

written by: Jacasa Currie editing and proofreading by: Daniel Currie As adults, we know that our relationships, friendships, and connections are in a constant state of growing, dissipating, and changing. This can be a hard concept for our teens to understand. Especially when it comes to the loss of those connections. Try to think back to when you were in school. You most likely, unless you moved around, grew up with the same group of kids. Your friends were mostly your friends. Occasionally, there were new people introduced, or one or two people changed. But it is hard to realize that there are more people in the world than just those that go to your own school. It is also equally hard to understand when those connections need to be severed for the teen's own well-being. Table of Contents ► Know the Signs ► My teen has a friend like this... What now? ► Do not write off their friend. ► But what if this friend is seriously causing problems, like getting them involved in dangerous behaviors or thought patterns? ► Be a role model for your teen. ► The Wrap-Up As a parent, it can be tricky to try to let them know who they should or shouldn't be spending time with. A parent's job isn't to control but to guide. So, the big question is: how? Know the Signs Let's first take a look at what it means for someone to be toxic. This seems like a mean term, but it is the best way I can ensure we are clear that this message gets across. It is someone who brings more negative than positive to your life. Or maybe they just bring you down, and you are tired of that feeling. Now, we will break down the most common traits/actions of toxic people: 1) Manipulative Behavior They use others for their own advantage. Example in a teen: Pretending to befriend someone because they intend to copy their homework. Then, when they don't need their help anymore, they start to ignore them. 2) Lack of Empathy When faced with others' issues, they tend to show little regard for others' feelings; instead, they turn things around to be about them. Example in a teen: When a friend is upset about a breakup, they respond with, "You think that's bad? My life is way worse," instead of offering support. 3) Constant Negativity This person will radiate negativity; they will approach most, if not all, situations with a pessimistic attitude. Example in a teen: No matter what happens, they find something bad to say: If a friend gets an award, they say, "It's probably not even a big deal," or if plans are made, they assume, "it's going to suck anyway." 4) Criticism and Judgement They often put others down, diminish their accomplishment, and make others feel inadequate. Example in a teen: They may mock their friend's clothing, interests, or achievements, making snide comments like, "You actually think you're good at that? That's embarrassing." 5) Controlling Tendencies They often micromanage or try to control the thoughts and/or actions of others in order to achieve personal benefit. Example in a teen: Telling their friends who they can or can't hang out with, demanding loyalty, and getting angry if someone talks to people they don't approve of. 6) Shifting of Blame They never take responsibility for their actions and blame others when things go wrong. Example in a teen: If they were to get in trouble at school for talking in class, they immediately say, "It's not my fault. They were the ones distracting me." 7) Exploitation Using others' kindness or weaknesses for their own benefit. Example in a teen: They guilt-trip a friend into always paying for their food saying, "You have more money than me, it's no big deal," without ever repaying or showing gratitude.   My teen has a friend like this… what now? So, now that we have a little better understanding of how this could look. Let's say you've noticed that a teen has a friend who is displaying one or multiple of these behaviors. What should you do? The first thing you should do is to sit down and have a calm conversation. Mention what you have been noticing that their friend seems to be displaying some concerning behaviors. Then, point out specific examples of what you have been noticing. As much as you would love to say I want you to stop spending time with this person, it is best to avoid that. Why, you might ask? Think about when you were a teen. Do you think that you would respond well to that? Probably not. Essentially, you will just push your teen to continue spending time with them, and possibly even more time if they feel spiteful. You have to remember this connection feels super important to them right now. Instead of pushing them that way, calmly explain that you are concerned that this could be affecting them negatively. Then, ask them if they have noticed the same things. If they have, encourage them to have a conversation with their friend. The friend's response determines whether or not they should continue or walk away. Sometimes, we do things naturally and do not realize we are doing them. When things get pointed out, we are able to notice and correct our behaviors. This is the best-case scenario. If the response is more negative, the next suggestion should be to distance themselves, at least for a little while. This allows your teen to give their friend space to rethink their actions and possibly right them. If not, it allows them to see their true colors and hopefully make the choice to walk away. Overall, you want to be more of a listener than an advice giver. The suggestions above are great ways to guide without overdoing it. When your teen sees that you have their best interest in mind instead of just controlling things, it helps to build that positive relationship and fosters open communication. Your teen will feel more comfortable coming to you in the future for guidance. You also have to decipher when they need someone to just listen to them. After their conversation with their friend, they may come to you to update you on the situation. Always remind them that you are there for them and just listen until they ask for your assistance. Do not write off their friend. What exactly do I mean by this? Essentially, do not hold grudges, at least not to your teen's knowledge. When your teen goes about this conversation, they may decide to walk away and have some negative things to say about said friend, but later, rekindle their relationship. It is hard not to remember all the hurt they may have gone through the first time around, and you shouldn't forget. Keep it filed away, but do not show your grudge to your teen. If you do end up saying well, I really do not like this friend because they did x, y, and z, you are breaking that line of trust you had built, and your teen will feel as though they shouldn't come to you because you will always hold a personal grudge. Instead, inquire about the rekindled friendship. Ask them how they ended up fixing things and if they feel they are sincere about their apologies if any occurred. Tell them that you trust their judgment but just to be wary until they have fully proven themselves and that you will always support their decisions. But what if this friend is seriously causing problems, like getting them involved in dangerous behaviors or thought patterns? It is important to remember that while a parent's job is to guide, it is also to protect. If you sincerely feel as though they are negatively impacting your teen, then you should communicate that to your teen. Be honest about your feelings and concerns. Suggest that they come over to your house, where it is a little easier to monitor their activities. Keep a closer eye on them. We have to teach our teens that everyone has choices and that choices have consequences. It is important to remember that they are not you. They have their own thoughts, feelings, and choices. I am not saying to just let them do things, but open communication and a little breathing room go a long way. The more you honestly and openly communicate with your teen, the more likely they will be to reciprocate. Be a role model for your teen. Possibly the most important aspect is to show examples to your teen of what it means to search out the most positive connections out in the world. This can be shown through your own relationship because as much as a parent doesn't want it to happen, teens will begin dating. This could also be shown in your own friendships. If you have ever had to decide that maybe someone wasn't a positive friendship and you had to walk away, use that as an example in conversation. Being able to relate to your teen will help them understand that you might just know what you are talking about and help them get to know you better as a person.  The Wrap-Up In the end, guiding your teen through friendships—both healthy and toxic—is about maintaining open communication, trust, and support. Instead of controlling their choices, provide them with the tools to recognize unhealthy behaviors and make informed decisions on their own. Be a listener, a role model, and a source of encouragement. Friendships will come and go, and while it's hard to watch your teen struggle, allowing them the space to learn and grow will ultimately help them build stronger, healthier relationships in the future. Your guidance, patience, and understanding will make all the difference in helping them navigate these important social dynamics. Love it? Share it!  (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles !  ✒️ Take me home  🏠 Back to the top  ⬆️ Originally Written on: February 3, 2025

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