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  • Crafting Success: A Teen Innovator's Guide to Entrepreneurship

    written by: singledadworld.com reviewed by: Daniel Currie I am thrilled to share a fantastic blog post from our friends at singledadworld.com . Their comprehensive blog, "Crafting Success: A Teen Innovator's Guide to Entrepreneurship," is a must-read for anyone with an idea and the drive to make it happen. This insightful guide delves into the exciting journey of teenage entrepreneurship, offering essential strategies for turning passion and ideas into a successful business. Let's dive into this valuable resource aimed at young visionaries ready to make their mark! Please enjoy it as much as we have! Thank you for your insight, singledadworld.com ! Image via Pexels Venturing into entrepreneurship as a teenager is an exhilarating journey that blends ambition with the challenge of turning dreams into reality. This dynamic process is a masterclass in adaptation and growth, providing a unique opportunity to shape the future. Aimed at young visionaries eager to make their mark, this guide from Guiding Teenagers  distills essential strategies into a blueprint for building a thriving business. It focuses on converting raw passion and fledgling ideas into a well-oiled business machine poised for market success. Perform Detailed Market Analysis The cornerstone of a successful business lies in a deep understanding of the market landscape. Thorough research is imperative to grasp the intricacies of your target market, including customer behaviors, industry fluctuations, and competitor strategies. This initial step enriches your strategy, empowering you with the foresight to make informed decisions and carve out a niche for your enterprise. It's about aligning your business vision with market realities to create offerings that resonate deeply with your intended audience. Start an LLC Starting an LLC as a teenager can provide valuable real-world business experience, teaching important skills such as financial management, marketing, and problem-solving. There is no LLC age requirement  and it offers legal protection by separating personal and business liabilities, reducing personal risk. Additionally, it can enhance college applications and resumes, demonstrating initiative, responsibility, and entrepreneurial spirit to potential schools and employers. Establish Achievable Objectives Goal setting transforms aspirations into tangible outcomes. By establishing clear, measurable, and achievable objectives, you provide your business with a clear trajectory of growth. Valley First notes that these goals serve as milestones , offering a sense of direction and a measure of progress. They encapsulate your ambition in actionable steps, driving you forward with purpose and resolve. Go for the Loan Establishing credit can be challenging for teenagers, but options like secured credit cards, store credit cards, and even some debit cards that report to credit bureaus can provide a starting point. These tools help build a credit history , which is essential for qualifying for larger financial opportunities like business loans. Alternatively, parents can cosign on a credit card or loan to help their teen build credit more effectively and responsibly. Reduce Paper Clutter When delving into entrepreneurship as a teenager, it’s critical that you stay organized. Paperwork has a habit of piling up, and a lost or misfiled document could spell disorder. Luckily, you can avoid this if you start digitizing your records. Simply scan your important documents and save them as PDFs.  Create a Robust Business Plan A robust business plan is the heartbeat of any burgeoning business. This comprehensive document outlines your vision and strategies and is the blueprint for reaching your business goals. It acts as both a guide and a gauge for your entrepreneurial journey, keeping you aligned with your core objectives. Moreover, a solid business plan is indispensable for attracting investment, offering a compelling narrative of your business's potential and operational roadmap. Craft a Memorable Brand Identity The name of your business is more than just a label; it's the first chapter of your brand's story. Choosing a name that's both memorable and reflective of your business ethos  can significantly impact your brand's identity and marketability. A compelling name sparks interest and lays the foundation for strong brand recognition and customer curiosity. This is all part of creating a compelling content marketing strategy . You can refer to sites that are curated by content experts to generate SEO and material for social media. Spotlight Your Unique Selling Proposition Differentiation is key in a saturated market. Identifying and promoting your unique selling propositions (USPs) distinguishes your business from the competition, drawing customers to your door. Whether it's innovation in product design, unmatched customer service, or sustainable practices, AWeber points out that your USPs are the pillars of your brand identity, enticing customers with a promise  of unparalleled value. This focus on what sets your business apart is essential in crafting a compelling narrative that resonates with your target audience, making your offerings irresistible. Prioritize Organizational Efficiency Effective organization is the linchpin of a thriving business. Implementing systems and tools to streamline operations  ensures that every aspect of your business, from project management to customer engagement, operates like a well-tuned engine. This strategic organization fosters efficiency, clarity, and productivity, propelling your business toward its goals with precision. Moreover, an organized approach to business management enhances adaptability, allowing your enterprise to respond swiftly to market changes and opportunities. Embarking on the entrepreneurial journey as a teenager  is a bold assertion of creativity and ambition. By delving into comprehensive market research, leveraging digital marketing, and setting realistic goals, you lay the groundwork for a successful business venture. This foundational framework equips young entrepreneurs with the tools and insights necessary to navigate the entrepreneurial landscape, transforming innovative ideas into scalable, profitable businesses. Embrace these strategies with passion and perseverance, and watch as your entrepreneurial dream becomes a thriving reality. Read more informative articles on the Guiding Teenagers   blog today! Love it? Share it!  (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles !  ✒️ Take me home  🏠 Back to the top  ⬆️ Originally Written on: June 5, 2024

  • Embrace Adventure: Why It's Essential to Try New Things

    written by: Daniel Currie A Personal Adventure: A Dad Meets Pet Bird Rigby for the First Time for an Unforgettable Experience! To Try New Things: Birds Don't Scare Dads! Today marked a first for me: a pet bird hopping on my shoulders while my family burst into laughter, teasing me for looking scared and tense. They claimed this tiny bird, which barely had the power to scratch, much less fly, was intimidating me. To Try New Things: What Not to Do! I couldn't resist teasing the little guy. While he was showing off with his owners—my son Devan and his girlfriend Sarah—I started invading his personal space, poking my fingers near him. I learned quickly that when you go to try new things, one of them not to do is instigate a bird. Predictably, he jumped at/on me. Naturally, my entire family was there to witness their "tough guy" dad flinch—though I maintain that I was cool as a cucumber! OK, I Got This. He Ain't So Bad. I quickly warmed up to the little guy. Impressively, I managed to walk away from the whole episode poo and scratch-free! Thankfully, Rigby left my mustache untouched—otherwise, I might have needed a website rename to notcurlystache.com! Ready. Set. Try New Things Without Thinking. Go! Now it's time to enjoy the shenanigans. Captured by our Google hub, here's a glimpse of the fun we had. I'm the one in the green hoodie, spontaneously ready to try new things alongside my eldest son, Devan. You might remember him from my last article, "Transmission Complete." He's the handsome, younger, skinnier, and long-haired version of me, wearing a black shirt. Devan, along with his girlfriend Sarah, owns the star of our story, Rigby. Comfy Shoulders, Cheez-Its to Snack, and Cameras Galore! After spending a memorable evening with Rigby, whose antics with North Face hoodies and Cheez-Its captured our hearts, I realized how his curiosity mirrored my own. As Rigby returned home, his little adventures left a significant impression not just on my clothes but also on my outlook. Keep an Open Mind When Trying New Things These moments with Rigby underscored a vital lesson about the joys and surprises that come from stepping into unfamiliar territory—It was an enlightening day that deepened my appreciation for keeping an open mind. Interacting so closely with a bird for the first time, spurred by a spontaneous decision, showed me and my family the value of not dismissing new experiences out of hand. That day positively changed my outlook on (pet) birds, especially cute, colorful ones like Rigby. Impacts of an Open Mind That said, and as shown with Rigby, it's essential to keep an open mind and try new things. Experiences like this remind me that life is richer when we’re willing to step outside our comfort zones and not confine ourselves to a rigid, black-and-white outlook. Embracing a bit of the unexpected and trying new things has reminded me of the joy in life's simple surprises. Try New Things: Birth of GT & CurlyStache.com I’ve always embraced the philosophy of trying new things, fully aware that it might not always end well. However, I believe it’s worth the risk to discover what truly resonates with me. I take these lessons and share them with my family, hoping to instill the same curiosity and resilience in my children. In the comment section below, share with us what you've done recently to try new things. We'd love to hear about it! Inspiration to Try New Things As noted in my very first blog, CurlyStache: the CTRL+ALT+Dad life, inspiration struck when chatting with my little girl about what a 'blog' is. Now, here we are with the birth of GuidingTeenagers.com, originally CurlyStache.com, in record time. If you haven't checked out the blog that started it all, please do so. It doesn't disappoint! Try New Things: Birth of our Social Media Platform With the launch of CurlyStache, I didn’t stop at just a domain; I've expanded our presence across several social media platforms. Find us on: Facebook X Instagram TikTok Pinterest Reddit What you can find on social media Our channels are buzzing with quick updates, a steady stream of fun dad jokes, useful parenting tips, engaging vlogs, and much more. Make sure to subscribe and follow us to stay updated and not miss a thing! We need your help. Spread the word! Let your friends and family know about the exciting content we're creating and encourage them to try new things. You can make a big difference by sharing our posts, telling others about our site, and using key hashtags like #GuidingTeenagers, #CurlyStacheBlogs, and #BloomingThoughts, which are found at the bottom of all our blogs. Your support means the world to us! Why Try New Things: Don't Knock It Until You Try It! As you can see, I'm deeply passionate about trying new things. Just ask the picky eaters in my family; they've all heard me say, "Don't knock it until you try it. Now eat." Simply put, you need to try new things before you can judge them. This philosophy extends far beyond the dinner table, where we've all judged the book by the cover. Let's try righting those wrongs; let's make a decisive attempt to try new things without bias and without knocking it before trying it! Push Your Boundaries by Trying New Things The essence of being true to yourself involves exploring new avenues—whether it's tasting a new dish, engaging with a pet bird, or launching a blog, it all boils down to three simple words: try new things. It’s about being open and willing to experience life fully, embracing everything from minor changes to major leaps. That said, the only way to truly "be you" is to keep pushing your boundaries and try new things. Be You When You Try New Things Be yourself and accept the good and the bad that comes with it as you try new things. In simpler terms, march to your own beat, but always press forward. Be The Leader by Trying New Things Lead rather than follow and dare to color outside the lines. Embracing this mindset can lead to profound contentment. Life will undoubtedly present challenges, including bumps and failures, but each setback is a setup for future success. Live Authentically While my advice might sound like a cliché from a greeting card or psychology class, I assure you, it's grounded in truth. Live authentically, and watch as things begin to align more harmoniously in your life. What can you change in your daily life to ensure you are living authentically? Final Thoughts To sum up, keep your head high, try new things, welcome new challenges, and embrace the opportunity to try new things. Doing this will bring unimaginable possibilities into your life, including happiness and less stress. So, why not take that first step towards something new today? I encourage you to try new things—just maybe steer clear of instigating birds! UPDATE - 5/16/2023, R.I.P. Rigby 😢 This original post was written on March 25th, 2023. Sadly, our beloved Rigby has passed away since then due to an accident involving another pet who was playing a bit too roughly with him. Although he was part of our lives for just a brief time, Rigby made a lasting impression. This post is dedicated to his memory. Rest in peace, Rigby. Love it? Share it! (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️ Originally Written on: March 25, 2023 Most Recent Update on: April 14, 2024

  • Parenting Teens: Navigating Fatherhood in the Digital Age

    written by: Daniel Currie Launched March 18th, 2023, this is the author's story and how it all came to be: "Our Pilot Blog" Introduction: Parenting Teens and the Years Ahead Hey there! I'm Dan, better known as CurlyStache. If you're navigating the wild waters of parenting teens, you're in good company. Strap in; it's a rollercoaster ride—scary, thrilling, and intense, but ultimately, it's an exhilarating journey that's over before you know it. CurlyStache: The Man Behind the Parenting Teens Blog Hailing from upstate New York, I'm not just the guy with the ever-changing curly or pencil mustache. By day, I'm a blue-collar broadband cable guy (curious about some of that WiFi lingo? Check out this special!); by night, I'm your go-to parenting teens blogger. So, what transformed me from a cable guy into a parenting advocate? It all started with a simple, yet profound, four-word question from my adorable daughter. The Question that Sparked the GuidingTeenagers Universe It was a lazy Saturday afternoon—one of those perfect moments for a father-daughter chat over my zillionth cup of coffee. Out of the blue, my 13-year-old daughter, Khloé, hit me with, "Dad, what's a blog?" What began as a fun fact-finding mission via our Google hub turned into a realization: this was my calling. The Platform: Real Talk About Parenting Teens As my daydreams turned into reality, I realized parenting teens was exactly where I needed to focus. Growing up in an authoritarian household and now riding the rollercoaster of fatherhood, I felt drawn to share and shape these experiences into the foundation of CurlyStache, which later evolved into GuidingTeenagers. GuidingTeenagers: It's Parenting Teens Mission Our mission is straightforward: deliver real-life tales from the parenting trenches and blend practical advice with solid facts. This blog is your sanctuary for discussing the gritty realities of raising teens. I bring the same street-smart, blue-collar integrity to our conversations that I bring to my day job up and down telephone poles. CTRL_control: Keeping Control When Parenting Teens Heats Up I'm not here to preach or claim I've got all the answers—far from it. I'm here to share the successes and the stumbles in parenting teens. Here at GuidingTeenagers, we dive headfirst into the tricky discussions, not just skirting around them. This blog is all about building a community where every kind of parent, whether you're a CTRL+ALT+Dad or a CTRL+ALT+Mom, can find a bit of solace and a lot of support. Together, we navigate the challenging waters of family life, sharing insights and laughs along the way. ALT_alternate: Creative Solutions for Sticky Situations Ever find yourself stuck between a rock and a hard place? I've been there. Parenting teens today requires agility and innovation. Sometimes, it means getting creative—like figuring out how to curb phone time at dinner or navigating tough conversations. GuidingTeenagers is packed with resourceful, decisive strategies to support your parenting journey. DAD_conclusion: You Are Not Alone in Parenting Teens Let's wrap this up with an essential reminder: GuidingTeenagers is more than just a blog—it's a community. It's a spot to relax, share a chuckle, and realize you're not alone in this parenting adventure. Have a story to share, a tip to pass along, or a topic you're eager to discuss? Drop a comment or shoot me an email. This space is as much yours as it is mine. Love it? Share it! (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️ Originally Written on: March 18, 2023 Most Recent Update on: April 17, 2024

  • Communication in Parenting: Lessons From Daily Interactions

    written by: Daniel Currie Introduction In every family’s tapestry, the threads that hold the fabric together are woven with countless colors of communication. These interactions, whether filled with laughter or tension, shape the essence of our relationships. Today, I revisit a story close to my heart—a simple, everyday conversation with my son, Devan, that beautifully captures the essence of truly connecting with our children as we navigate the journey of communication in parenting. The Story Unfolds | Communication in Parenting: Transmission Sent "Hey! Devan!" I called out one sunny afternoon. My voice, a mix of anticipation and the usual parental concern echoed slightly in the hallway. Devan, standing on the cusp of adulthood yet still my little boy in so many ways, was darting in and out of the house as young adults often do. "Yup, Dad?" His reply came, his voice deeper now, a reminder of the time slipping by. I chuckled softly, the sound mingling with a father's typical exasperation. "Please remember to shake out the pig blankets before tossing them in the wash," I reminded him, picturing the tiny hay pieces that could wreak havoc in our laundry system. The Assurance | Communication in Parenting: Transmission Recieved "Yeah, sure, Dad. Got it!" He responded, the quick assurance of a typical teenager echoing down the hall. The Missed Connection | Communication in Parenting: Transmission Failed Later, as I went to load the washing machine, a familiar disappointment settled in. The washer drum was littered with hay—the blankets nowhere in sight. Devan, it seemed, had missed the mark on our simple exchange. It was a small mishap, yet it spoke volumes. Communication in Parenting: Reflection and Understanding As I cleaned up the remnants of our miscommunication, my thoughts wandered to what had gone unsaid. Had I made my expectations clear? Was I too brief, or perhaps not direct enough? This wasn’t just about forgotten chores; it was about ensuring that my messages resonated with Devan in a way that prompted action and understanding. Communication in Parenting: A Parent's Needs It was crucial not just that my son heard what I was saying, but that he truly understood and engaged with it. In our daily exchanges over simple tasks, like the incident with the laundry, I wasn't just instructing him; I was testing our lines of communication and how well I was doing with my communication in parenting. It was vital for me to feel confident that he comprehended my words and was prepared to respond thoughtfully—even in seemingly trivial matters. Communication in Parenting: A Success Despite the mishap with the laundry, I hold a deep-seated trust that Devan listens—truly listens—when it matters most. This incident, while not ending as expected, isn't a failure but rather a valuable reminder and a learning opportunity for both of us. In previous situations, Devan has shown his ability to follow through effectively, which reassures me that our foundation of communication is solid. My approach to communication in parenting remains intact. I rest easy knowing that in critical moments, my son will heed my guidance with the respect and attention it deserves. Communication in Parenting: The Bottom Line This ongoing dialogue reassures me that Devan feels at ease opening up, sharing, and engaging in meaningful conversations with me. It’s important to highlight that the enjoyment of the topics we discuss isn't our primary goal. Instead, our focus is on maintaining an open channel of communication, ensuring we're both comfortable with just connecting and exchanging thoughts. This approach is the quintessence of effective communication in parenting—it's about making sure that our interactions foster a secure and understanding relationship, even if the subjects themselves are not always agreeable. Communication in Parenting: A Parent's Lesson This story, while trivial at first glance, is laden with lessons on the nuances of communicating effectively with our growing children and teens: Clarity First: Ensure your instructions are not just heard but understood. Sometimes, what seems obvious to us isn't as clear to someone else. Engage in Feedback: After sharing instructions or expectations, ask for feedback. A simple “What did you understand?” can prevent many misunderstandings. Consistent, Open Dialogues: Foster an environment where regular, open conversations are the norm, not the exception. This builds trust and makes it easier to navigate more critical discussions when they arise. Heartfelt Conclusion Communication in Parenting—true, effective communication—is the cornerstone of not only parenting but of all relationships. It’s about more than just transmitting information; it’s about ensuring our messages are woven into the understanding of those we love. As parents, we have the wonderful opportunity to do more than just talk to our children. It's essential that we engage with them, listen intently, and make sure they sincerely feel heard and understood. This is what truly defines effective communication in parenting. Let's commit to not just sending messages but to connecting deeply, one conversation at a time. Love it? Share it! (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️ Originally Written on: March 22, 2023 Most Recent Update on: April 14, 2024

  • National Asshole Day: Guide to Everything April Fools

    written by: Daniel Currie Introduction Alright, prank enthusiasts and curious minds alike—have you ever stumbled upon a calendar so bizarre it features a "National Asshole Day"? If you've ever thought this quirky occasion sounds suspiciously like April Fools' Day, you're not alone. Today, we dive into "everything April Fools," exploring its cheeky connection with National Asshole Day and unveiling the rich tapestry of history and hijinks that surround this day of practical jokes. The Quirky Origins of National Asshole Day and Its Twin, April Fools: Every year, as April 1st rolls around, a certain mischievous spirit fills the air. It's not just any playful spirit; it's one that some might call the essence of National Asshole Day. But what's the deal with this unofficial holiday? National Asshole Day isn't recognized on any official calendar, despite numerous contradictions and random dates from sites, but its spirit is alive and well on April Fools' Day. This is the one day a year where pranks pull us together or push us to vow revenge. From the harmless to the elaborate, pranks are both the hallmark of April Fools and the reason why it might as well be called National Asshole Day. Delving into the History: Everything April Fools The origins of April Fools' Day are as murky as the coffee you switched for saltwater in your spouse's mug this morning. Historically, it dates back to the 16th century when France shifted from the Julian calendar to the Gregorian calendar as called for by the Council of Trent. Those who failed to realize that the start of the new year had moved to January 1st and continued celebrating it during the last week of March became the target of jokes and hoaxes. These early pranks gave rise to an annual celebration of shenanigans that spread across Europe and, later, the world. The term "Poisson d'Avril" (April Fish) became a popular joke in France, involving pinning a paper fish on someone's back as a declaration of gullibility. Epic Pranks That Defined National Asshole Day (AKA April Fools) Fast forward to modern times, and the pranks have only gotten more ingenious and, yes, sometimes more asshole-ish. Here are some of the most memorable April Fools' pranks that perfectly capture the spirit of National Asshole Day: 1905: A German newspaper company, Berliner Tageblatt, released a fictional story of burglars digging under the U.S. Treasury and robbing it, which sent the U.S. into panic mode, trying to catch the fictional characters 1957: The BBC aired a fake news segment about Swiss farmers enjoying a bountiful spaghetti harvest, complete with footage of people picking spaghetti from trees. 1985: Sports Illustrated published a story about a rookie pitcher named Sidd Finch who could throw a fastball over 168 miles per hour. 1996: Taco Bell convinced the public they had purchased the Liberty Bell and were renaming it the "Taco Liberty Bell." 1998: Burger King advertised a "Left-Handed Whopper," leading to request chaos at restaurants. 2013: The U.S. Army declared they were drafting cats, citing cost-cutting measures and an all-paws-on-deck policy. Tips for Celebrating National Asshole Day Responsibly While pulling off the perfect prank can feel like a badge of honor, it's important to keep the spirit of fun alive without crossing into actual asshole territory. Here are some tips for responsible pranking: Keep it light: The best pranks are harmless and generate laughter from everyone involved, including the prankee. Know your audience: What works for one person might not be appropriate for another. Tailor your pranks to suit the individual's sense of humor and tolerance. Safety first: Never compromise someone's safety (or your own) for the sake of a joke. Wrapping Up: Why We Embrace the Prankster Within National Asshole Day and everything April Fools remind us of the value of humor in our lives. In an age where laughter sometimes seems in short supply, a well-executed prank can be a welcome distraction and a means to bond with friends, family, and coworkers. So, as we look forward to April 1st, let's plan to unleash our inner pranksters—but maybe keep the real asshole moves to a minimum. Have any epic pranks you've pulled or fallen for? Share your stories below, and let's have a laugh! Final Thoughts Whether you call it National Asshole Day or April Fools' Day, the first of April is a time for laughter, jest, and the occasional look over your shoulder. It's a day to celebrate the trickster in all of us and to remember not to take life too seriously—at least not today. Let me know in the comments what you did this April Fools! Did you play it safe, or did you earn the title of "Ultimate Asshole" with your pranks? Cheers to a day filled with laughs and good-natured fun! Love it? Share it! (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️ Originally Written on: April 1, 2023 Most Recent Update on: May 4, 2024

  • Mother's Day 2024: Traditions, Gifts & Creative Celebration Ideas

    written by: Daniel Currie Introduction Mother's Day 2024 is fast approaching, bringing with it an opportunity to express love, gratitude, and admiration for the incredible moms and mother figures who fill our lives with joy. From thoughtful traditions to the newest trending gift ideas, this guide provides everything you need to make this year truly special. Let's explore the importance of Mother's Day, its rich history, and how to celebrate it creatively and warmly. The Importance of Mother's Day Mother's Day holds a unique place in our hearts. It's a time to recognize the unwavering love, care, and support that mothers provide daily. The bond between a mother and child is powerful, built on countless shared moments of laughter, challenges, and triumphs. This day allows us to express our gratitude and reflect on how deeply these women have shaped our lives and communities. Traditions and History of Mother's Day in the U.S. In the U.S., the modern observance of Mother's Day is attributed to Anna Jarvis, who wanted to honor her own mother in 1908. She successfully campaigned to make the second Sunday of May a day to celebrate mothers nationwide. Officially recognized in 1914, this tradition continues today with flowers, heartfelt messages, family gatherings, and tokens of love that express our appreciation for mothers. 5 Traditions Throughout Other Cultures Mother's Day is celebrated in various ways across different cultures: Mexico: Mexican families celebrate on May 10th with mariachi bands serenading mothers in the early morning. The day is filled with flowers, gifts, and the traditional song "Las Mañanitas." United Kingdom: Known as "Mothering Sunday," it falls on the 4th Sunday of Lent and traditionally includes church services and gift-giving. Ethiopia: The Antrosht festival brings families together for a feast. Sons provide meat, while daughters bring vegetables for a shared stew to honor their mothers. Thailand: This day is celebrated on August 12th, coinciding with the Queen Mother's birthday. It includes candlelighting ceremonies and parades. India: Mother's Day is relatively new in India but gaining popularity. Families often give flowers, cook their mother's favorite dishes, and spend quality time together. Creative Ways to Celebrate Mother's Day Backyard Picnic: Set up a cozy blanket in the backyard and pack a basket of her favorite snacks. Enjoy an alfresco meal while sharing stories and laughter. Virtual Family Gathering: For those unable to visit in person, organize a virtual family gathering with games and a slideshow to celebrate her. Memory Lane Tour: Take your mom on a tour of meaningful places, like the park where you used to play or her favorite coffee shop. Nostalgia can bring warmth to the day. Cooking Class or Workshop: Sign up together for a fun class, like cooking, painting, or pottery, to bond and create lasting memories. Unique Gift Ideas Personalized Jewelry: Custom necklaces or bracelets with her children's names or birthstones can make a sentimental keepsake. Memory Book: Compile a scrapbook or photo album with family photos, notes, and cherished memories. Spa Package: Treat her to a luxurious spa day, complete with massages, facials, and soothing baths. Subscription Service: Curated subscription boxes deliver gourmet treats, books, or skincare products straight to her door. Top Trending Mother's Day Ideas in 2024 on Amazon Smart Kitchen Gadgets: The latest smart kitchen gadgets, like high-tech blenders or air fryers, are designed to simplify cooking. Fitness Trackers: With features like sleep monitoring and heart-rate tracking, these devices help moms on their wellness journey. Home Aromatherapy Kits: Diffusers paired with essential oils make relaxation more accessible. Self-Care Sets: Curated self-care sets, including bath products, candles, and skincare, are perfect for pampering. Conclusion Mother's Day 2024 is a chance to create beautiful memories and strengthen your bond with the incredible women in your life. There are countless ways to make this year extraordinary, from creative celebrations to thoughtful gifts. Take the opportunity to show your appreciation with love, care, and creativity, and make her feel truly cherished. Love it? Share it! (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️ Originally Written on: May 11, 2023 Most Recent Update on: May 12, 2024

  • Father's Day 2024: Traditions, Gifts & Unique Celebration Ideas

    written by: Daniel Currie Introduction Father's Day 2024 is just around the corner, offering a perfect chance to show appreciation and love for the incredible dads and father figures who enrich our lives. From timeless traditions to the latest trending gift ideas, this guide covers all you need to make this year's celebration truly remarkable. Let's dive into the significance of Father's Day, its storied past, and some creative ways to honor dads everywhere. The Importance of Father's Day Father's Day holds a special place in our hearts as we celebrate the dedication, love, and sacrifices that fathers make daily. The bond between a father and his children is unique, built on countless shared experiences, wisdom, and unwavering support. This day allows us to reflect on and express our gratitude for these men's profound impact on our lives and communities. Traditions and History of Father's Day in the U.S. Father's Day in the United States has its roots in the early 20th century, with the first widespread celebration occurring in 1910, thanks to the efforts of Sonora Smart Dodd. She sought to honor her father, a Civil War veteran who raised six children as a single parent. Officially recognized in 1972, this day continues to be celebrated with gifts, family gatherings, and heartfelt messages expressing appreciation for fathers. 5 Traditions Throughout Other Cultures Father's Day is observed worldwide in various ways, reflecting diverse cultural practices: Germany: Known as "Vatertag," men—nearly any men—can celebrate letting their primitive selves bloom. Men get highly creative with their Bollerwagen (wooden wagons) decorated and loaded with provisions. They then wander in groups, drinking and celebrating, hiking, and enjoying each other's company. Brazil: Celebrated on the second Sunday of August, families gather for a special lunch tailored for their fathers. Following the father's special meal, it's customary for him to take advantage of the day and do the activity of his choice with his family by his side, spending quality time together. Thailand: On December 5th, the day coincides with the King's birthday, known as "The Father of the Nation" for his kindness and compassion towards his family and nation. In addition to ceremonies, parades, and the gifting of yellow flowers, all fathers can travel for free on the BTS (Bangkok Mass Transit System) when accompanied by their children! Japan: Although it is not a public or federal holiday, it is widely celebrated by all families with gifts and quality time together. Uniquely, most presents given to fathers are edible, such as wagashi (Japanese sweets), shochu (Japanese distilled beverage), and sake (Japanese rice wine). Traditionally, most were store-bought or handmade; since the rise of online shopping, gift boxes filled with combinations of treats and items have become more accessible and acceptable. South Africa: Like many cultures, the day is tailored to fathers. In Cape Town, many family-friendly businesses allow fathers free entry for Father's Day. Commonly, families often enjoy the beloved South African pastime, "braai" (barbecue), together at home or with others, honoring fathers with food and quality time. Creative Ways to Celebrate Father's Day 2024 Backyard BBQ: Fire up the grill and prepare a feast of his favorite dishes. Enjoy a laid-back day filled with good food, laughter, and stories. Virtual Game Night: If you can't be together in person, organize a virtual game night with fun challenges and trivia. Memory Scrapbook: Create a scrapbook filled with photos, notes, and mementos that highlight cherished memories. Adventure Day: Plan an outdoor adventure, such as hiking, fishing, or a day at the beach, to enjoy quality time and nature. Cooking Class: Sign up for a cooking class together and learn to make his favorite dishes, bonding over shared culinary experiences. Unique Gift Ideas for Father's Day 2024 Customized Tools: Personalize tools with his name or a special message, combining practicality with sentiment. Gourmet Gift Basket: For a personalized touch, curate a basket with his favorite snacks, beverages, and treats. Tech Gadgets: From smart home devices to the latest in tech accessories, find gadgets that make his life easier and more fun. Experience Vouchers: Give the gift of an experience, like tickets to a sporting event, a concert, or a workshop. Personalized Apparel: Custom T-shirts, caps, or cufflinks with meaningful messages or designs can make great keepsakes. Top Trending Father's Day Ideas in 2024 on Amazon Smart Home Devices: The latest smart home devices, such as smart speakers or automated lighting systems, are perfect for tech-savvy dads. Fitness Equipment: Home workout gear, like adjustable dumbbells or smartwatches, helps dads stay fit and healthy. Outdoor Gear: High-quality camping gear, fishing equipment, or hiking accessories for the adventurous father. Self-Care Kits: Grooming kits and skincare sets tailored for men, providing a touch of luxury and care. Cooking Gadgets: Advanced kitchen gadgets like air fryers, smokers, or sous-vide cookers for dads who love to cook. Wrapping Up Father's Day 2024 offers a wonderful opportunity to create lasting memories and show your dad just how much he means to you. With countless ways to celebrate, from heartfelt traditions to innovative gifts, this year can be exceptional. Take the time to express your appreciation with love, care, and creativity, making him feel genuinely valued. Love it? Share it! (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️ Originally written on: May 21, 2024 References "Father's Day In Germany-It's NOTHING like American Father's Day!" https://germangirlinamerica.com/fathers-day-in-germany/ "How to Celebrate Father's Day in Brazil" https://www.portuguesepod101.com/blog/2019/07/19/fathers-day/ "Celebrating Fathers Day In Thailand" https://www.bkkkids.com/blog/celebrating-fathers-day-in-thailand/ "Marking The Calendar: When Is Father's Day In Japan 2024?" https://www.bokksu.com/blogs/news/the-essence-of-fatherhood-embracing-fathers-day-in-japan "Father's Day in Cape Town, South Africa!" https://www.littlepassports.com/blog/the-buzz/fathers-day-in-cape-town-south-africa/

  • The Dangers of Vaping in Middle School: A Father's Guide

    written by: Daniel Currie Guiding Teenagers Bite-Size 3-minute Blogs, best known as GT Mashups No fancy formats. Opinionated. Based On Facts. Controversial? Sure. Agree or disagree, it's a topic that demands attention. Let's dive into something that's causing quite a stir in middle schools today—vaping. My stance is clear: vaping is wrong, unhealthy, and dangerous. But as a parent, addressing it can be a bit like walking a tightrope. So, let's get into it, shall we? It started innocently enough with my son, a bright-eyed eighth grader who's always been more into video games and soccer than anything else. But then, I noticed a shift. A sweet, odd smell frequently covered him when I picked him up, whether at school, a friend's house, or sometimes even practice. The icing on the cake—besides all the obvious signs that leave all parents in denial, crying, "Not my child!"? It was his vape, which he left out carelessly in the water bottle pouch of his book bag. I nearly blew a gasket. "Dad, it's no big deal," he shrugged, trying to brush it off like it was nothing, trying desperately to play it off cool but to no avail. This was clearly a black-and-white problem; there was no room for gray. After all, this isn't a dirty sock left on the floor—we're talking about his health here. Vaping might seem like a harmless trend, but it's far from it. According to the CDC, e-cigarettes contain harmful substances like nicotine, heavy metals, and volatile organic compounds. These can seriously mess up a young, developing body. My not-so-little boy, and perhaps even a few of you, may think I overreacted, but let's not kid ourselves; middle schoolers are impressionable. They see older teenagers, peers, and even adults, their role models, vaping, and they begin to think it's cool or a way to fit in. As his dad, my job is to cut through that BS with facts. "Look, buddy," I said, "I get that it might seem harmless, but it's not. This stuff can hurt you in ways unimaginable if you give it time." And here's where I got authoritative but empathetic. He desperately needs to know I'm on his side, even when I'm putting my foot down. We've all been there, trying to navigate parenthood with a mix of support and tough love. Remember the days when you were in school? The peer pressure, the need to belong? It's no different now, but the stakes are even higher now with new products that we may not have had growing up, such as vaping. The National Institute on Drug Abuse reports that nearly 30% of teens use some form of vaping device. That's a scary-ass stat! What's a dad to do? You talk, you listen, and you set boundaries. "I'm not here to make your life miserable," I told him. "I'm here to keep you safe." It's about striking that balance—being there without mollycoddling. He needs to learn to make smart choices on his own, but with the knowledge that I'm always here to guide him. When I confronted my son about vaping, it wasn't about punishing him. It was about educating him. We sat down, looked up facts together, and talked about the real dangers. Did he roll his eyes? Probably. Did he hear me? I think so. And sometimes, that's enough. Parents, it's time to step up. Stay informed, stay involved, and don't shy away from these tough conversations. Your kids might not thank you now, but one day, they'll get it—much like you did. Vaping isn't just a phase; it's a health risk. And as the adults in their lives, we've got to lead by example and with firm, supportive guidance. So here's my takeaway: Be there for your kids. Understand their world, but don't be afraid to set the rules. Educate them, support them, and be the rock they need. Vaping in middle school is a real issue, but with open communication and a bit of tough love, we can help our kids navigate these choppy waters safely. I hope you enjoyed Vaping in Middle School! Until next time, check out other Mashups! Love it? Share it! (links below the written date/references!) Make sure they know where it came from 👌 #GuidingTeenagers #CurlyStacheBlogs #BloomingThoughts Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️ Originally Written on: June 12, 2024 References CDC: Smoking and Tobacco use, E-Cigarettes (Vapes) https://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/e-cigarettes/index.html CDC: Smoking and Tobacco use, E-Cigarette Use Among Youth https://www.cdc.gov/tobacco/e-cigarettes/youth.html American Cancer Society, What Do We Know About E-cigarettes? https://www.cancer.org/cancer/risk-prevention/tobacco/e-cigarettes-vaping/what-do-we-know-about-e-cigarettes.html What We Know About Electronic Cigarettes https://smokefree.gov/quit-smoking/ecigs-menthol-dip/ecigs

  • What THE? Parenting Series: PART IV

    This series is designed (but not necessary) to be read chronologically; if you need to catch up or skip ahead, the links below will take you to where you need to go! What Kind R U? Parenting Series: PART I The Big UNcubed Parenting Series: PART II The Great PRO³ - Parenting Series: PART III What THE? - Parenting Series: PART IV HA! HA! HA! - Parenting Series: PART V UNderstand PROblems THEy HAve - Parenting Series: PART VI Throughout this series, we have focused on parenting skills, primarily allowing children to dictate the relationship. Today, we focus on the opposite, where the parents rule over every final decision in the relationship, with the child having little say in any affairs. When this is the case, and most, if not all, of the decisions, are run past the parent needing their approval before allowing the child or teen to do anything, it is typically classified as Authoritarian Parenting. A brief look at the primary characteristics of an Authoritarian Parent: The relationship between parent and child is primarily parent-driven Parents have stringent household rules for their children and harsh punishments to match Child's wants, along with their social and emotional life, come secondary, if ever considered Communication is typically one-way from parent to child, and when the child gets a voice, often it is not taken seriously or is ignored Jump to a section: >>> What THE? >>> THEatrics & THEory behind it >>> THEme of problems = answers in THErapy >>> THEft of growth means a rising THErmostat >>> Conclusion What THE? Sometimes parents wonder, "What the hell was that kid thinking?!" Other times their counterpart, the young minds, are left thinking, "What the heck do I have to do to make my parents happy?!" In an authoritarian family hierarchy, the parent and child seem to butt heads more than any other type of parenting. So I got to thinking, what THE hell is causing this?! Then I discovered it: What THE? THEatrics & THEory behind it In a home with an authoritarian parent, the parent is very much involved in their child's life. Typically it is an excellent thing and can be very beneficial. However, if the parents are not doing this correctly, meaning they do not keep themselves in check and aren't humbled to admit when they are becoming too controlling, it can lead to disaster, as so many times is the case. In an authoritarian relationship, parent-to-child, two things happen: 1) anything the child wants in life, they must go to their parents and either ask for it or permission to do it. 2) What the parent says goes; it becomes law regardless of how the child feels about it. The child's emotional, social, and other "non-essential" elements are often not considered. It boils down to the parents being in utter control of everything from the food eaten, to the friends they can have, to the music they can listen to. It can sound challenging, being under someone else's total control like that. However, the parent believes it's in the child's best interest because the parent has already gone through it (or has been raised that way and found it successful- or doesn't know any other way to raise a child). Therefore, they try to ensure the best path the first time (similar to PROmise & PROmote parenting from my previous post). The primary difference between PROmise & PROmote parenting and an authoritarian is that the authoritarian parent will not do anything for the child. Instead, they push them to achieve it independently while demanding excellence, giving the child the tools for problem-solving, overcoming adversity, and quality work ethics as they age. That's the THEory behind it from the parent's perspective- and it's all true! Unfortunately, the issue with that is yes, the child is learning by doing it; however, it stunts mental, emotional, and social growth. A child needs to be able to explore their likings and preferences to fully nurture them as they grow, which may include, in some instances, situations that the parent may typically say no to. If a parent does not allow their child to explore and enjoy some of their life's little pleasures, it can lead to the child acting out with THEatrics. The THEatrics are what causes parents and children/teens to butt heads so much. When an adolescent feels as though they have tried hard and accomplished a lot- and continue to try and do for their parents but does not get any reward, specifically something they want to do, it cause the child to act out. When this happens, it is primarily out of spite to attempt to make the parents feel miserable like them. THEme of problems = answers in THErapy Most of the time, the THEatrics come in the form of temper tantrums when the child is younger. However, as they grow and reach puberty and teenhood and the parents stand firm in an authoritarian manner, sparks tend to fly more frequently, and outbursts can become more prevalent. It isn't because the teen is trying to irritate their parents purposely; it is more because they lack the mental, emotional, and social necessities that a growing mind needs. Their minds have been developing and changing since a very young age, and they have been learning, imagining, exploring, and dreaming big the entire time. As time continues, so does the itch to explore the potential of new possibilities. Peers (including other issues such as peer pressure) also contribute to the need to want to fill the void and achieve happiness and excitement. This feeling does not come naturally in authoritarian homes, so teens tend to act out more and clash more than the other three major parental categories. As friction builds and the teen develops an attitude, parents blame the child, their friends, and their influences. In the eyes of the parent, the child should be perfect because the parents raised them in their image (or at least the best vision they could imagine). Unfortunately, this is not the case because everybody has their tastes, personalities, and preferences. Between this misinformed mindset (in many cases) and the disposition of an authoritarian parent's firmness in situations, it becomes a common THEme for the parent to find fault in the child. Conversely, the child feels the THEme of their relationship is that they are at fault, but only because they cannot fully understand where the parent is coming from. In a relationship where both parent and child are rather bull-headed regarding their outlook and perspectives on life, THErapy could be required. There are different versions of THErapy, especially since, depending on your background, faith, and beliefs in THErapy, talking with someone may or may not work. Parental Mandate: Parents will take the child to THErapy, even if it's just in hopes the therapist will tell the child the parent is right and they are wrong Child Request: The child/Teen asks for THErapy because they cannot go to anyone for help (one-way communication parent to child) or to ask the therapist for assistance in talking to their parents on their behalf Bonding THErapy: Finding a common fun interest that both the parent and child enjoy, or something nostalgic from happier times, and then taking time to hash issues out Bias THErapy: Talking to someone else, usually another (not immediate) family member, for advice. Considered biased because whoever the "therapist" is, one party or the other will have a prejudiced outcome based on the "therapist's" history with the people or wisdom of situations. THEft of growth means a rising THErmostat Nothing cranks up the THErmostat better than constant fighting while one party yells, punishes, or commands the other to do something they do not want. On the flip side, nothing adds to the twist of the dial, making it even hotter than a young teen who has been severely punished and begins to feel like they have lost all they cherish. That becomes a slippery slope because when young teens start not to care about consequences, they understand (or better put: they feel) they have little left to lose. The parental outlook becomes THEft. The parents take a step back, look at the situation, and believe their child has stolen from them since they are not acting like the child they raised. The parent will begin to feel that all their hard work has been a waste and that their child, who they still love deeply, has stolen their prized sculpture of the "mini-me." Conversely, the child or teen will look into the parent's eyes and think the same: THEft. They will think, "You stole my childhood from me; I was always doing what you wanted." Even when the child realizes and understands much of what their parents have done for them was in their best interest, at that point, it does not justify not allowing them to live their life the way they wanted to. In Conclusion Authoritarian parenting is by far the trickiest of them because of the intricacies of it. An excellent moral system is usually in place, and parenting is typically done in the child's best interest in the long term (prepping them for life/the real world). However, the downfall is not allowing the child to be themselves, stunting personality and emotional growth. The tradeoff is they are now a miniature you, whether they like it or not. Note that "whether they like it or not" is critically dangerous for individuality, self-confidence, and self-worth. Coupled with growing up and frequently clashing, that could be catastrophic if not careful. Continue Reading: PART V - HA! HA! HA! Parenting advice: Raise them with balance Catch up on the series: PART I - What kind R U? Parenting advice: Raise them without being overbearing, absent, or avoiding conflict PART II - The Big UNcubed Parenting advice: Raise them without being absent PART III - The Great PRO³ Parenting advice: Raise them without avoiding conflict Love it? Share it! (links to share below) Make sure they know where it came from #curlystacheblogs 👌 Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️

  • The Great PRO³ - Parenting Series: PART III

    This series is designed (but not necessary) to be read chronologically; if you need to catch up or skip ahead, the links below will take you to where you need to go! What Kind R U? Parenting Series: PART I The Big UNcubed Parenting Series: PART II The Great PRO³ - Parenting Series: PART III What THE? - Parenting Series: PART IV HA! HA! HA! - Parenting Series: PART V UNderstand PROblems THEy HAve - Parenting Series: PART VI This 6-part series began in detail the last post with what it meant to be a neglectful parent. Today we will dive into what it means to parent via the permissive parenting style. Again, as in the previous articles, there is no right or wrong way to parent. Every family is unique on its own, and every family comes from a different origin, making it one of a kind. Never should any family fit such a strict formula originating from psychologists and professors; let this guide what you as a parent want to be or don't want to be. Nevertheless, let's take a quick review of the characteristics of permissive parenting (the first of the four permissive "PROper characteristics") before turning the nuts and bolts: Parent/child relationship is primarily child-driven (Over)indulges their child with rewards to dodge conflicts There are very few rules; they are very inconstantly enforced or not enforced at all Parents are very nourishing to their children but find it challenging to impose limitations and boundaries Jump to a section: >>> The Great PRO³ >>> PROcreate & PROtect >>> PROmise & PROmote >>> PROcrastinate, PROlong, & PROtest >>> PROper Characteristics >>> Conclusion The Great PRO³ As stated, professionals worldwide have come up with four primary classifications for parenting styles. This post will concentrate on the one called permissive parenting. Upon research and to better understand what it means to be a permissive parent, I have broken it into three subcategories that make up The Great PRO³. PROcreate & PROtect The only type of parenting that works with infants and babies is permissive parenting because we, as parents, do not know what our children are trying to tell us unless we can pick up on the cues. As a parent, in this instance, we must ensure the spotlight is brightly centered on them and tend to their every want and need because there is no established 2-way communication yet. New parents that want to PROcreate also have the instinct to want to PROtect their "mini-mes" at all costs. The fact that they want to do this while they cannot understand them (infants or babies who cannot speak yet) is exceptional parenting. As they become toddlers and young children, they learn speech vocabulary and other forms of formal communication skills that allow us parents to know what is wrong or what they want. Once that begins to happen, parents need to understand that the spotlight should start coming off of the child and become a "shared spotlight" between both parent and child since they can communicate now. The issue with the PROcreate & PROtect type parenting begins when a parent continues to "baby" a child when they are old enough to talk, understand, comprehend, and hold a conversation. The parent still sees them as their "baby"; however, this behavior hinders the child from growing emotionally. What will happen is that the child will expect particular (usually more complex) obstacles completed for them, or if they want to avoid doing a specific duty, the parent tends to allow it to slide. Generally speaking, to an outsider looking in, the child appears spoiled or lacks responsibility. As you continue to do for the child, it could lead to outbursts in a social setting, difficulties making friends, and expecting to be pampered by others, especially authority figures (i.e., teachers in school). PROmise & PROmote Permissive parenting starts with PROcreate & PROtect, as all parenting should; however, if overnourished and parenting becomes "overdone" as they get older whereas the parent is still doing or helping the child in ways they should learn to do or deal with on their own, it can lead to dependency issues. Dependence issues can become more prominent when they become teenagers, whereas parents continue to nurture their wants and needs. Parents will PROmise the road ahead with techniques such as the "lawn mower" parent (also known as "snow plow parenting" or "bulldozer parenting"), and parents will PROmote the child's desires with the Helicopter Parenting technique. Helicopter Parenting: As the name suggests, the parent is overly involved in the child or teen's life with a bird's eye view to navigate them around obstacles to ensure their success. Lawn Mower / Snow Plow / Bulldozer Parenting: The modern-day upgrade from Helicopter Parenting. Rather than watching and navigating, the child is the driver of the lawn mower (snow plow or bulldozer). Wherever they want to go in life, the parent actively mows or plows anything in its way to ensure no interfering, micromanaging, or arranging. Doing this protects the child or teen from adversity, disappointment, discomfort, and failure. Both the Helicopter and Lawn Mower parenting styles found in PROmise & PROmote are hazardous to the growth of a young teen. It can lead to dependency, as described already, and the inability to manage failures or conflicts as an adult. Depending on their self-esteem, this could lead to emotional stress, depression, or other mental problems. Furthermore, social cues and relationships could also be affected due to their possible narcissism from always being correct as a child and teen because the parents made sure of it. PROcrastinate, PROlong, & PROtest The final subtype of permissive parenting is the most common of the three. In this situation, the parent (or parents) love and adore their children with all their hearts; however, their tolerance for childish behaviors or attitudes is very little. The parent sets rules and chores and raises the child on a good set of morals- everything they can do to be the best parent they can be; the problem is the child disapproves of the rules, chores, and morals in place. Yes, in some instances, there are medical issues with the child (or even the parent), making it difficult for the child to maintain a certain level of calmness (or the parent dealing with stress, etc.). Still, in most cases, it is everyday family stress. After fighting and reasoning with their child, the parent finally PROtests and gives in to the child's demands or wants/needs. Even after that, it doesn't seem to change for the better, so after PROlonging and PROcrastinating, hoping for the best, the parent gives up, not wanting to deal with the child or teen's behavior. From that point on, the parent lets it go, and the child/teen gets what they want when they want. Because the parent does love the child very much and is just struggling with their behavior, they will occasionally (if not frequently) attempt to instill the rules, chores, or morals. Unfortunately, when the child or teen gets punished for not doing something or disobeying, the punishment goes without being enforced to avoid more conflict. PROper Characteristics Now that we looked into permissive parenting a little bit more, here are the final four PROper characteristics of permissive parenting that can help identify a parent raising a child in this manner: The child is always right: The child is always right if there is a difference between them and another person (regardless of trustworthiness or authority figure) unless there is proof, regardless of how ridiculous it may sound (in the case of "PROcrastinate, PROlong, & PROtest" models it is usually to avoid conflict with the child/teen) Excessive Pampering: What the child wants the child gets, whether it be for simple comforts, to further boost their self-esteem/self-worth, to get their way, or to get them to stop their temper tantrum Equals: When looking from the outside inward, it would almost appear as though the parent and child are equal instead of the parent parenting and the child being the child Sense of Arrogance: In the "PROcreate & PROtect" and "PROmise & PROmote" models, there is a sense of both parent and child having some arrogance or conceited (child: gets what they want / parent: paving the way, overly proud of their child and that they were able to pave the way for them) / in the "PROcrastinate, PROlong, & PROtest" model the child has the sense of arrogance or being conceited. In contrast, the parent feels defeated and disrespected. In Conclusion If you find yourself parenting in The Great PRO³ realm, nothing is wrong with that! It shows compassion for the young mind, including the ability to think for oneself, have imagination, and believe they can do whatever they want. However, this has some definite downfalls that need to be addressed, specifically concerning the child or teen becoming dependent on others. The trick is to take the precious pieces from this and mold them with your unique style ensuring you keep the unwanted pitfalls out! Continue Reading: PART IV - What THE? Parenting advice: Raise them without being overbearing Catch up on the series: PART I - What kind R U? Parenting advice: Raise them without being overbearing, absent, or avoiding conflict PART II - The Big UNcubed Parenting advice: Raise them without being absent Love it? Share it! 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  • Home WiFi in 2023: Understanding the basic differences between 2.4G (2G), 5G, and WiFi6

    Home WiFi is the technology used to get the Internet from your Internet service provider (or customer-owned) modem or router to your devices wirelessly. As technology improves, new versions, or next-generations, are released- this is where the "2G" and "5G" things come into play. Listed are the three you will run into the most, what's so special about them, and how they compare. Jump to the comparison chart 2.4G (2G) details 5G details WiFi6 details Please note 2.4G (also known as 2G for short) : In Layman's terms, it defines the wireless RF frequency (airwave) that your Internet is traveling on (2.4-GHz spectrum). Birth year: 1997 (WiFi for consumer use was established) Pros: Easily understood by all devices, more robust signal strength allowing for it to go further and through objects better Cons: Heavy interference in the airwaves, primarily from cordless phones, microwaves, baby monitors, Bluetooth, and other 2.4G networks. Faster speeds do not favor as well in part due to the max bandwidth in the 2.4G spectrum of 20-40 MHz; think of the bandwidth as the "conduit" the Internet travels through from your device to the modem or router, and in this case, 2.4G offers the smallest size Misnomers, Disclaimers & Misconceptions: Networks carried on the 2.4-GHz spectrum can achieve max speeds when it meets these criteria: Conditions are ideal (i.e., not going through a brick wall, sitting next to a microwave, or there is significant interference or congestion on the network) The modem or router is running on an IEEE standard that supports those speeds The device that is connected is running on a standard that is capable of the speed as well Primary Versions/IEEE standards: 802.11 / 802.11b / 802.11g / 802.11n / 802.11ax The newest version in 2023: 802.11ax (WiFi6), capable of up to 450-MBps in ideal circumstances Distance Potential in 2023: 802.11n (WiFi4) under ideal circumstances, with the correct setup and configuration, the 2.4G network can reach approximately 400 to 600-MBps within 30 feet, degrading after that and extending to almost 200' but with little to no connectivity at that point; baby monitors, microwaves, dimmer switches, and Bluetooth devices can severely impede the network if those devices malfunction or there is an issue with the shielding Notable Information: Most IoT (Internet of Things) / smart technology use (or require) this today because of its pros, and typically not much bandwidth is needed Standard CPE Defaults: If your modem or router strictly broadcasts a 2.4-GHz network, you could see just a network name with nothing after it (example: [example_network_name]), or in some instances, it may include a "-2G" in the ending indicating it is the 2.4-GHz network. (example: [example_network_name]-2G) back to top 5G WiFi6 Comparison Chart As you can see in the image, I have highlighted a few networks with similar names in this list of available networks, with the only difference having a -5G (or not). In those cases, two different networks come from the same modem or router. As described, the one without a -5G is a 2.4G network. Therefore, the modem or router can deliver Internet to your device on two different frequencies. Now it is up to you to choose which network you would like to use based on your device's needs (usually speed vs. range). 5G : In Layman's terms, it defines the wireless RF frequency (airwave) of your WiFi signal (5-GHz spectrum). Birth year: 1999 (as WiFi popularity grew, speeds increased and network congestion grew, allowing for the rise of the 5-GHz band) Pros: Understood by most devices, it allows for faster speeds than its predecessor, with the max bandwidth in the 5G spectrum of 20-160 MHz. Again, thinking of the conduit analogy: this is considered the medium-sized pipe for your Internet Cons: WiFi signal strength does not do as well as the 2.4-GHz band, primarily because (rule of thumb) the higher the frequency, the shorter the range because higher frequencies have a more challenging time penetrating solid objects Misnomers, Disclaimers & Misconceptions: Networks carried on the 5-GHz spectrum can achieve max speeds when it meets these criteria: Conditions are ideal (i.e., not going through a brick wall, sitting next to a microwave, or there is significant interference or congestion on the network) The modem or router is running on an IEEE standard that supports those speeds The device that is connected is running on a standard that is capable of the speed as well Primary Versions/IEEE standards: 802.11a / 802.11n / 802.11ac / 802.11ax The newest version in 2023: 802.11ax (WiFi6), capable of up to 1300-MBps in ideal circumstances Distance Potential in 2023: 802.11ac (WiFi5) Under ideal circumstances, with the correct setup and configuration, the 5G network can reach approximately 1300-MBps within 25 feet, degrading after that and extending to almost 100' (indoor) but with little to no connectivity at that point; through every wall, floor, item it can dramatically affect the outcome as well Notable Information: By comparison to the 2.4-GHz network, the 5-GHz network is the more clean and stable of the two, with less noise invading the spectrum, and is not as congested as other networks Standard CPE Defaults: If your modem or router broadcasts a 5-GHz network, typically, you will see the network name with a "-5G" in the ending, indicating this is the 5-GHz network. (example: [example_network_name]-5G) Generally speaking, if your modem or router has a -5G network, it will have a 2.4G network as well back to top 2.4G WiFi6 Comparison Chart WiFi6 : The newest generation of WiFi technology; it shows a WiFi icon on your phone, tablet, or device with a little number 6 next to the WiFi icon Birth year (WiFi6): 2019 via 2.4-GHz and 5-GHz technologies Birth year (WiFi6E): 2020 via newly released 6-GHz spectrum Pros: Backwards compatible with 2.4G & 5G Networks. Fastest speeds allowed wirelessly to date with the new 6-GHz spectrum (only available in the latest devices with 6-GHz radios); for everyone else utilizing the 2.4 & 5-GHz antennas and a WiFi6 modem or router, new technologies such as HE-OFDMA have allowed for overall throughput over 300%. Laymen's terms: the technology fully utilizes the 2.4 & 5-GHz bands allowing breakneck wireless speeds- currently, it is equivalent to opening the flood gates in the conduit analogy Cons: Most cons are taken care of with this version, meaning it uses both 2.4 & 5-GHz radios simultaneously; thus, it will obtain better range and faster speeds in ideal conditions mitigating the cons of range issues that 5G networks and the speed issues with that the 2.4G networks had Misnomers, Disclaimers & Misconceptions: WiFi6 Networks can achieve maximum speeds when it meets these criteria: Conditions are ideal (i.e., not going through excessive materials, being near a source of ingress in the 2.4 to the 6-GHz range, or there is severe interference or congestion on the network) The device that is connected is running on a standard that is capable of the subscribed speeds Primary Versions/IEEE standards: 802.11ax The newest version in 2023: 802.11ax (WiFi6) capable of up to 9.6-GBps in ideal circumstances Distance Potential in 2023: 802.11ax (WiFi6) under ideal circumstances, with the correct setup and configuration, the 5G network can reach approximately 9.6 GBps within 25 feet, degrading after that and extending to almost 100' but with little to no connectivity at that point; the degrading of signal and speed is less dramatic with range extending further before WiFi integrity completely slow or drop Notable Information: The reason this technology is best is that it takes the best of both the 2.4 & 5-GHz networks with the help of algorithms and channel bonding and increases the amount of data (aka Internet) you can fit in it at one time Standard CPE Defaults: If your modem or router strictly broadcasts a WiFi6 network, typically, you should see just one network name since there are no individual 2.4 or 5-GHz networks. Instead, your modem or router should only show one extensive network, the WiFi6 network *NOTE* Other versions, such as WiFi5, can follow the same defaults; check the manufacturer in this case or your Internet service provider. There will usually be a number 6 next to the WiFi icon on your device once connected to help you differentiate back to top 2.4G 5G Comparison Chart Direct Comparison Chart back to top 2.4G 5G WiFi6 *PLEASE NOTE* This article is a basic layout of standard wireless technologies' similarities, differences, misconceptions, and formats. The post is not a detailed technical article but for basic understanding only. Also, please note that these are only the three most common technologies found visually via the network name and WiFi icons. Other WiFi technologies, such as mesh systems and WiFi5 routers, can utilize both the 2.4G and 5G networks, making them look like a WiFi6 routers but not. If you would like to learn about all the differences, please subscribe to the blog to receive notifications for future articles that go into more technical depth and detail regarding these technologies. Love it? Share it! (links to share below) Make sure they know where it came from #curlystacheblogs 👌 Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️

  • What Kind R U? Parenting Series: PART I

    This series is designed (but not necessary) to be read chronologically; if you have already read this post, or are looking for something specific in the series, below are links to the other 5 articles in the 6-part series! What Kind R U? Parenting Series: PART I The Big UNcubed Parenting Series: PART II The Great PRO³ - Parenting Series: PART III What THE? - Parenting Series: PART IV HA! HA! HA! - Parenting Series: PART V UNderstand PROblems THEy HAve - Parenting Series: PART VI PART I - Parental Classifications One of the most asked questions asked by parents, especially new parents, is, "Am I doing this right?!" as they sit there lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, unable to sleep while their mind races from thought to thought and how well their child is doing in life. I'm here to tell you, you will never achieve perfection, but as long as they have a good sense of morals and decision-making, they are unique in their personality, and they follow their passions and dreams, they will be just fine in life. In this mini-series, we will explore the four main types of parenting, the pros and cons, along with tips and tricks. So--- What Kind R U? Here are the four primary classifications: 1. Neglectful Parenting It may sound rough, saying you could be a "neglectful" person- especially regarding your child- but it doesn't mean you don't love and care for them. The primary characteristics include the following: Absent, uninvolved, and freedom-giving Guidance and emotional support are rare Indifferent to the nourishing of their social, behavioral, and emotional life Basic needs are the parent's primary role (food, shelter, clothing) 2. Permissive Parenting This style has become more popular recently with the assistance of social media and various human rights movements, concentrating on their child's needs in excess. Characteristics of a permissive parent include: Parent/child relationship is primarily child-driven (Over)indulges their child with rewards to dodge conflicts There are very few rules; they are very inconstantly enforced or not enforced at all Parents are very nourishing to their children but find it challenging to impose limitations and boundaries 3. Authoritarian Parenting Although firm and rigid, this type of parenting is still fairly popular for many reasons, including how the parent was raised, culture, religion, and nationality. In recent years, however, this style has declined as more parents find permissive parenting a compelling choice. A few traits of an authoritarian parent are: Parent/child relationship is primarily parent-driven Very rigid and strict household rules that set very harsh punishments Indifferent to the nourishing of their social and emotional life Communication is typically one-way from parent to child 4. Authoritative Parenting Authoritative parenting has been best described as a happy medium between the permissive and authoritarian styles, pulling from the best of both worlds. Parents strive for this most popular type, even if they fall short and land in another category. Some of the key points are: Parents are responsive, supportive, and nurturing Sets firm rules set in the home; parents are willing to listen and reason but don't necessarily always accept what the child has to say Uses open communication and natural consequences for wrongdoings Attempt to mold their child's growth and behavior by taking an interest and explaining, discussing, and reasoning with them as they do good and bad Is there a right or wrong answer? By no means is there a correct answer; this is only a list compiled by many psychologists and colleges worldwide. I will be the first to tell you I have found myself falling short of what class I WANT to be in compared to what category I AM in. However, MY style is not, nor should it be, any of those particular structured styles. That is what makes me an individual and a one-of-a-kind parent. Perfect? Far from it. Comfortable in my skin? Indeed, and very proud to be. In Conclusion Every one of those four parenting styles has its own set of pros and set cons too. Yes, some are better than others, but I can assure you not one of them is wrong; much of it comes down to your own beliefs, upbringing, religion, ethnicity, nationality, and many other circumstances unique to you. So the question becomes, What Kind R U? In the next part of this mini-series, we will dive into neglectful parenting. Continue Reading: PART II - The Big UNcubed Parenting advice: Raise them without being absent Love it? Share it! (links to share below) Make sure they know where it came from #curlystacheblogs 👌 Take me back to more blog articles! ✒️ Take me home 🏠 Back to the top ⬆️

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